SPEAKING ENGAGEMENT

Today I spoke in Parma at a Christian Women's Luncheon. The other speaker was from Pierre's Ice Cream. Every friday he samples ice cream. Fun job!!!

It was a great day and the highlight came at the end. I was sharing my testimony of how as a teen I was always looking to fill a void in my life that was "God size."

When I asked everyone in the audience to bow their heads and close their eyes for the invitation...one little girl did not. She and I locked eyes and for the next few minutes I felt like I was speaking to just her. It was so cool!!!She was very attentive and at the end gave me a huge smile.

I hope something she heard today will impact her life and maybe give her pause to think as she grows into a young lady.

MY DAUGHTER THOUGHT IT WAS FUNNY

Today I was driving with my daughter and I told her I had the perfect name for a Christian Boy Band...ready...

"The Jonah's Brothers"

She laughed...I smiled...it was a good day!

DEVOTIONS ON MONDAY

I am hoping to begin some sort of posting schedule for my blog. Mondays are hard and I thought it would be a good idea to begin the week with a devotional. Here goes the first devotion on what I am calling:

hmmm...I don't know what I will call it...yet.



Tomorrow is the first day of school. I asked my son what he was going to wear tomorrow...his response..."the first thing I see when I open my closet tomorrow." I remember planning for days what I would wear on the first day of school. I do have an embarassing confession in this area. I grew up watching "One Day at A Time" with Valerie Bertinelli. I loved the show and I loved her character. I thought she was so cool. I would watch the show to see what she would wear and then I would try to find a similar outfit. Maybe I will post a picture sometime of my failed attempt to her. Fast forward a few years later...okay...25 years. I am still guilty of trying to immulate others that I see. I try to parent like other moms that I meet, I try to have material items that other women have, I try to be like what society woud call the "Jones'" One question...who are the "Jones'"



I am reminded in His Word that " ... godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. 9 People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. 11 But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness." 1 Timothy 6:6-11


I need to be who He created me to be. As a matter of fact...I don't even think I would like the "Jones'" whoever they are.
Be you today!!!!

ANOTHER GREAT SUMMER WEEKEND

This weekend we headed off to Mohican Lodge with a family in our care group. We had a blast. We swam, watched the olympics, hiked (geo caching, ate some wonderful meals, canoed, ate some more, and most of all...enjoyed each others company.

Here are some of the highlights:

- having dinner at a small town cafe. We all expected Aunt Bee and Andy to walk through at any moment. We bought homemade muffins and homemade cinnamon rolls for breakfast. To quote Rachel Ray "YUMMO"
-Getting ice cream at a small town dairy bar
-Visiting a beautiful castle and maybe the future wedding sights of all of our daughters (each family has 2 beautiful girls)
-Enjoying a wonderful dessert with just us girls
-Exposing our friends to the fun of geocaching.

I am having trouble posting pics...off to do the laundry from the weekend.

One more thing...on the way home from church we stopped at Paul Mitchell's beauty school for $5 haircuts and $5 manicures. This was a benefit for the family of the officer that was killed in Twinsburg a month ago. His wife and beautiful baby girl were there. Pray for them.

FABULOUS FINDS FRIDAY

I am starting a new series on my blog called "Fabulous Finds Friday". I want to highlight the "finds" in my life that make it easier and better.

So to kick off the first one...I chose my dog Grady. Friends and family...do not be mad that I chose my dog first. It doesn't mean that I love any of you less...it just means that I don't have a picture of you that is easily accessible and...you are not laying at my feet as I type. ha ha

I use to laugh at those who had dogs that seemed so important to them. The ones that dressed up their dogs and took them eveywhere they went. I AM NOW ONE OF THEM.

My name is Joy and I treat my dog like a human. Hello Joy.

He is currently running around the house with a cute little t-shirt and yes...the kids and I did put a pair of build a bear superman pants on him for a short while yesterday.

I take him in the car whenever I can and at stop lights...I let him sit on my lap and put his paws on the steering wheel.

I love this dog. Every morning he runs into my room and wakes me up. He normally stays there until I decide to get up. He cries when I leave and he is always waiting for me when I return. His love is unconditional. We took him to a free obedience class last weekend and the trainer hurt my feelings. She said he was stubborn and can you believe she used the word "spoiled".

We love Grady and believe he has definately made our lives better. Well...gotta go...Grady hasn't been held for 30 minutes.

WE WONDER WHY OUR YOUNG GIRLS SUFFER FROM LOW SELF-ESTEEM

This article makes me a little angry...and very sad. What do you think? One of my passions is speaking to young girls about self esteem and true beauty. Read it for yourself...let me know what you think.

OPENING CEREMONY SINGER

GRAB SOME TISSUES...ESPECIALLY YOU SANDI

OLYMPICS SHOULD CHALLENGE US ALL

As I watched the opening ceremony of the olympics something occurred to me. All of the athletes marching around the stadium once had a dream...and now they have fulfilled that dream. They just didn't wake up last week and decide to try out for an olympic team. No! It took many hours of training and preparing and probably many obstacles to get to China. I have dreams and I have to keep reminding myself that I need to put the effort behind it. I am not going to just wake up one day and my book be pubished. I am not going to just wake up one day and be thinner and healthier. (now that's a dream) I'm not going to wake up one day and be debt free. I am not going to wake up one day and have the job that I always wanted.

How about you...what's your dream?

Today Austin went to his football (dream)practice. Number 48 came home tired but excited.

Off to Dick's Sporting Goods. I am not going to just wake up tomorrow and all of his dream (football) supplies be ready for him.

MENU PLANNING

I have always considered myself a teachable person. I love learning from other people and especially other women. I was talking to my best friend Sandie today on my way to the grocery store. I was telling her how much I hated grocery shopping. She asked me if I menu planned. I told her no. She went on to explain to me how this might make my shopping a little less stressful. Okay...I told her I would try. So here's to you Sandie:

Sunday: Ribs and Jo Jo's
Monday:chicken divan and noodles
Tuesday: Sloppy Joes and peirogies
Wednesday:Chicken Pockets and corn casserole
Thursday:Calzones and salad
Friday/Saturday: camping
Sunday: whatever we can find

ANOTHER DREAM BEGINNING

What do you do when your son tells you he now wants to play football and that it begins in 4 days and he needs a physical before he can start? I tell you what I do...I scurry around trying to get an appointment, all the paperwork completed (this includes a waiver of liability...yikes)and any supplies that he may need. Why do I do this? I have always told my kids to dream big and to try new things. Never to limit themselves and never be afraid. I don't want these words thrown back at me...so we are off to our sports physical.

I wonder if Peyton Manning gave his mom more notice? hmmm

IT PAYS TO YARD SALE...LITERALLY

I love garage sales. I love yard sales and estate sales. My eye is always looking for that homemade sign that will lead me to that ultimate find.

It has been a great year for me.

I found Ashley a great couch for $40, matching area rug for $5 and other great finds.

Last week I happened to drive by a sale and decided to stop. It was a clean, well organized sale and all of the proceeds were going to charity. Her stuff was great. I wear a size 7 1/2 shoe and tried to squeeze my feet into a size 5. She had beautiful stylish shoes, never worn...at a great price. This is where I bought Ashley's couch.

As I was checking out, she asked if I wanted to buy a raffle ticket. Sure...I always support breast cancer.

Today...my door bell rang...I WON $100 in Gas cards. I was so excited!!!

See...the next time people tell me I am crazy for always searching for that great deal...I say...WHO BOUGHT YOUR GAS TODAY?

ARE YOU HUNGRY?

If anyone is hungry head to Ashley's. The kids and I drove to erie and spent sunday evening in a fun hotel. We spent all day cooking and freezing food for Ashley. For those of you who know me well...know how much I hate to cook. You will find chinese containers and pizza boxes in my recycling bin each week. I hate to cook...but love AShley and want to do whatever I can to make her stay at medical school easier.

Here is her menu:

Baked Oatmeal
watermelon
chocolate cookies
banana bread
Spaghetti
Sloppy Joes
Chicken Burritos
Pot Roast with vegetables
Chicken Divan
Cranberry Chicken
Buttered Noodles
calzones

I am tired...and I am not cooking for awhile!

Hello Papa John's

FREE SUMMER ACTIVITIES

Boy am I tired. We have had a very busy and fun summer and also at times...free!

Watching the Browns practice was FREE!
Going last night to watch Bucky Covington was FREE!
Fireworks at Twinsday tonight...FREE!
Tomorrow we are going to a Jeremy Camp concert that is ...yes...FREE!

Of course the best event takes place at our house between 6 pm and 8 pm. )ALSO A FREE EVENT)

Austin's band will be auditioning lead female singers.

Pray for us.

5 to 6 little girls will be coming to audition and my prayer is that no one gets their heart broken.

I told Austin they need to be sensitive and fair or I was going to hang up all of his embarassing baby pictures for everyone to see tonight. Especially those baby bath pictures.

CLEVELAND ROCKS

Yesterday I took Alex and a friend to watch the Brown's Training Camp. It was hot...it was crowded and I know nothing about football. To me a "tight end" is something I once had. The boys had a blast. We were able to put a blanket right down on the side of the field. To let you know how close we were...the pictures we took were with a regular lense.

CONFERENCE

I mentioned earlier some exciting news about an upcoming conference. I believe STMM founder Leigh says it much better. With her permission...I am including an excerpt from her blog.

Leigh writes:

Speaking Thru Me Ministries has just been granted 501(c) tax exempt status. That means that we are able to take donations and give the donor a tax benefit. Yeah!! But having said that we have little to nothing in the pot to speak of. If you remember correctly our speakers take no kind of speaking fee. I would say we have even less than 5 loaves and 2 fish. Nevertheless God has given me this story today to encourage me that He will provide in abundance.

September 2009 I have rented the Marion Civic Center for a conference for men and women. I have already booked Curtis Jones, Beth Moore's son in law, to speak. I am working on the worship leader and a few more speakers. Priscilla Shirer has already gracefully declined. So i continue to reach my hand in the basket to pull out more and more loaves and fishes. Every time I begin to panic - will anyone show up - how will i ever pay for all this - what if my speakers cancel at the last minute - how is this different than anything else - I reach my hand once again in the basket and
He provides...scripture, cards from friends, emails from family, holy nudges!!




Head over to Leigh's blog to get more details and the story of how God led her to this decision.

Pray for us!!!

BLOG UPDATE

I am trying to update the look of my blog. This is a work in progress so it will be changing a lot.

I wanted to share a quote that I saw at the beach.

"MEN ARE FROM MARS...WOMEN ARE FROM VISA"

OFF TO MEDICAL SCHOOL

Ashley has officially started her journey to becoming a doctor. Her Camry headed down I-271 yesterday afternoon. Ashley, we are so proud of you and so excited to see you going after not only your dream but the plan that God has for you. I know it won't be easy...but you won't be alone. Many people are praying for you and you will not fail.

I was so touched by two Godly women who pulled Ashley aside and prayed with her at church yesterday. Sandy...thank you for telling Ashley that she can call you at any hour of the day for prayer...you're the best.

Ashley my prayer is that your class is the class the cures cancer, that helps children live the life that children should live. My prayer is that your class wipes out the diseases that are taking the lives of people too soon.

On a selfish note...I hope your class finds that miracle pill that keeps us all looking young and thin forever. I will be your guinea pig.

We love ya!

VACATION SLIDE SHOW

GOOD TO BE HOME

We safely arrived home today and it was so exciting to see Grady. I hate to admit that I have become one of those crazy "dog" people. I missed him and was so excited to see him. He looked bigger, fluffier and better behaved.

Vacation was awesome. We did many things that we haven't done in the past. One of the favorites was renting a speed boat and going tubing. The kids had a ball. I even tried it. We splurged and rented a boat for 2 hours. We had 40 minutes let on the rental and the tube broke. We were disappointed since the kids were having so much fun. When we returned to the rental shack we asked if they could compensate us some way because of the tube. They went above and beyond...they actually allowed us to come back the next day for 2 more hours...FREE!!!!That is what I call great customer service.

We ended our trip with a family scavenger hunt. We had 45 minutes to take 12 different pictures. The other team won..that's okay...it was worth it to see my mom go up to strangers and ask if we could take their picture.

Gotta go...suitcases won't unpack themselves.

EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT

I would like to interrupt blogging about our vacation to bring an exciting announcement.

Leigh Gray the founder of Speaking Thru Me emailed us all today to say that we have been officially approved as a non-profit and have tax exempt status. Yeh!!!! This is a huge deal for us now as we begin to plan for announcement number 2:

STMM will be posting a conference (Fall of 2009). Plans are being finalized to have Curtis Jones (Beth Moore's son-in-law) as our conference speaker. Leigh and Ginger are working diligently to secure a top worship leader.

Details will be shared as they are finalized.

Check out the website and please pray for us.

BEACH TRIP CONTINUED

Yesterday we went to barefoot landing and had a fun lunch at Johnny Rockets. JR takes you back to the 50's. at any moment the "fonz" could be walking in with his leather jacket and "hey....

Last night was our night to cook so wally and I made what we call "beach chicken". I will share the recipe later. It is delicious and only has 4 ingredients. Debby made a special salad that Todd suggested and her signature peanut butter pie.

Last night was karaoke night at the beach. It was fun. There are some really good singers here and a few that well let's say...bless their hearts.

We also had dun driving around on the golf cart and visiting the many people who sell homemade crafts at their site. I am definately going to investigate the new jewelry craze here...I'll share later.

Sadly the trip is winding down...more to cram in 3 days.

WORKS FOR ME WEDNESDAY

I love "Works for Me Wednesday!" There are some great tips posted every wednesday. This is a first...I am going to post a tip.


How do you manage the many cords that come with Ipods, cell phones, Gamecube, WII, Xbox etc.? With a large family and everyone having at least 2 of these...I have found a system.

I hand a shoe organizer on the back of a door. Shoe organizers come with many departments and can easily make the cords accessible. That's my tip.

BEACH UPDATE!!!

We are doing great at the beach!!!!

Internet is unpredictable and I can't upload any pictures. The concert was great!!!
Wait until you see the picture of Tim McGraw. I am not sure how he moved in such tight jeans. The performers were great!!

Monday we hit the outlet mall. I mean true outlet stores. I bought 2 pairs of pants, shirt, dress, shorts for $40.

We spent the afternoon with my cousin and her family. There are 19 members of our family here at the beach. We are going to try and take a family picture on thursday.

Yesterday the entire family hit the beach jumping waves and swimming with the fish. Because of recent storms the waves were wild and fun.

Last night we dined among rock stars at Hard Rock Cafe. We walked around Broadway at the Beach. A highlight was watching the performers prepare fudge at the fudgery.

We are having a ball just spending time together.

WE SAW GARTH BROOKS TODAY...IN CHURCH

Every year on vacation we attend Low Country Community Church. We love the laid back atmosphere, the sweet tea you drink during worship and the greeters. We walked in today and we were met by two men with long beards...numerous piercings, tattoos all the way up their arms and the nicest men you ever met. They worshipped God with all their heart and soul. Worship was GREAT!!! Get this...the worship leader's side job is as a Garth Brooks impersonator. He did not lead us "friends in low places" as Garth but as himself...but we are going to a benfit tonight where he will be in full Garth regala. Rumor has it that we will also meet Elton John, Tim Mcgraw, Jerry Lee Lewis, and of course...Elvis. We are so excited.

We are having a blast here at the beach. Temperature was 98 degrees today. I will try to post a picture tomorrow of us with our famous friends.

Gotta go for now...and as Garth would say.."Thank God for unanswered prayers."

TELL ME WHY GOD!

God...why do we have to have hot flashes when it is already 95 degrees outside?

CAMP ROCK...ROCKS

Austin comes home everyday excited about camp. Today they met Jim Peterick who wrote "Eye of the Tiger." The kids were impressed that he knew Sylvester Stallone. Austin asked if I had ever heard of any of the bands that he played for since it would have been during my teenage years. I told Austin unless he played back-up for David Cassidy or Donny Osmond I probably wouldn't know him. We are gearing up for the big show on Friday. We spent all day making shirts for all of the band members families. My says "mom of the guitarist" on the back. We helped Austin practice his autograph just for fun.

I was getting ready for church tonight and I was thinking about Austin's excitement. How could we duplicate that for church? I keep a binder of ideas that I would use if I am ever blessed to be a children's director again. Several years ago I had written down "Camp Rock" for a church. I think you could do this in a very appropriate way and have a fun week for kids who love music. You have to be creative. Look at how the world is grabbing our kid's attention. We have to be creative in how we do ministry. I have a whole notebook full of fun and creative ideas...just waiting for the opportunity.

SUMMER REWIND

We have had a great summer so far:

- 4th of July in Chicago visited family that we haven't seen in awhile. We were able to attend a graduation party for my nephew and re-connect with family
- Short trip to charleston and a chance to visit with mom and sister last weekend. I have to say that we hit some GREAT!!! garage sales and found some real bargains.
- Austin is having a great time at "CAMP ROCK". Rumor has it that Nickelodeon will be filming the concert on Friday. We had to sign a release. On another band note...the name of his band had to change for the week. They added a bass player so "LITTLE ROCK THREE" doesn't work. His mentor temporarily gave them the name "SHOW ME THE MONEY".
- ALex is at "CAMP CHARLESTON" and is being spoiled beyond repair
- Allison continues to mentor little girls each week as she teaches them cheers and stunts at a cheerleading camp
- Ashley is busy packing up her room for her big move to Erie on friday

BEST OF ALL...we are off to the beach soon. YEH!!! We have planned our menu and even planned a mid-week scavenger hunt.


I look at the above list of fun activities and I feel guilty and sad. WHY?

Last night the girls and I attended the vigil for the police officer that was killed in Twinsburg recently.

500 people came out with candles to mourn the loss of this man. He was a new father and seemed to have his whole life ahead of him.

I am reminded of what someone shared with me once. The only breath you are guaranteed is the one you just took.

Life is fleeting...eternity is forever...we need to live like it...note to self.

WHEN GOD WRITES YOUR LOVE STORY

I just returned from a wedding that was incredible. It wasn't because of the food (it was delicious) it wasn't because of the beautiful bride (even though she could have been on the cover of a bridal magazine) it was because of the love story that led up to this day.

I have known the couple since they were in 7th grade. They were only friends. I watched both of them grow in the Lord and begin to serve Him wholeheartedly. I watched them serve at outreach events and missions trips. I watched them comfort their friends in times of need and I have watched them respect their parents and love their families.

Today was special. Today I watched them come together as husband and wife. Through the years I have watched them let "God write their love story". He can write it like no other.

MY NEW BOOK

So...if I ever write a book about my journey as a mom...I already have a title:

Here it is...

"I'D ESCAPE MY WORRIES BUT GAS PRICES ARE TOO HIGH"

I like the following title that I saw the other day in Today's christian woman

"Due to the high cost of energy the light at the end of the tunnel has been dimmed"

What do Ya think?

So tonight at Bible study I was talking to some of the women about the social network programs online. We were talking about how confusing we found FACEBOOK and whether or not we were too old. We decided to create a new social network for those of us over 40...We think we should call it

FACEliftBOOK

KINDERGARTEN MEMORIES

Do you have a certain meal that reminds you of a special time in your life. I do. My grandmother's bake steak and gravy, my mom's chili, my grandmother's graham cracker pie.

We returned from Chicago last night and I was too tired to cook so everyone was on their own for dinner. I went to fix myself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich when something in the pantry caught my eye...fritos. It took me back to kindergarten. Everyday my best friend Kim Runyon would bring a PB&J and fritos. She would open her sandwich and pour the fritos on the sandwich. We thought it was so cool that kim's sandwich made a crunching noise when she bit into it. We all began putting "crunchies" on our sandwiches. The best was fritos. So last night...I regressed back to kindergarten and put the "crunchies" on my sandwich. It was just as good as it was 37 years ago.

Giveaway

Hey,

Check out my friend Leigh's Blog. She is having a really fun giveaway.

www.leighhargisgray.blogspot.com

DAD'S POETRY

I love to write and I think I inherited this from my dad. I have been cleaning our basement and I came across this poem that he had written when his mother died. The same time she died...Ally was born.

IN MEMORY OF EUNICE RUTH BUMPUS

What are they seeing when in their sleep they smile,
the dying Christian and the newborn child?
The one just arrived, the other soon to leave.
With the one we're happy, the other we grieve.

But wait, they're both smiling, what can it mean.
The pleasant, peaceful looked they have as they dream.
Is it God they see and he's saying don't despair.
"I love you both and you're both in my care."

We've watched our babies smile this way.
And now mom, grandma smiled today.
So now we know why there is this smile,
on the face of the Christian and the newborn child.

And we're happy for both the Christian and the child.
For God loves them both and on both HE has smiled.

WEEKEND REWIND

- Went to old navy and bough flip-flops for $1
- Watched alex and austin play over 8 hours of baseball this weekend. Austin hit a grand slam and completed something called a "batting cycle"
- Had a whole afternoon to myself while everyone else went to an Indians game
- Went to a wonderful Bible study today on the history of the church
- Enjoyed another weekend visiting with Todd
- Had someone surprise me today with personalized cards made just for me
- Made Ashley and Allison laugh so hard that Allison fell to the floor


A GREAT WEEKEND!!!

THE DISNEY EXPERIENCE

I was watching the news the other day and there was a story about how the airline industry is sending their employees to a disney training program to help improve customer service. Disney is known for their attention to detail and goes the extra mile to make it a great experience for families. The statement was made that "one negative employee can ruin the disney experience for a family." That is why they are so intentional on training their employees. I thought about a similar experience at a church. A church may have all the bells and whistles but if they don't love on their people are they creating a bad experience. If they are judgmental are they creating a bad experience. I remember one time feeling judged by a church and it took me awhile before I wanted to go back. I didn't feel loved. I have visisted large churches where not one person greeted me or said hello. Could a bad experience cause someone not to want to come to the place where they will hear the good news of Jesus?

UNEXPECTED BLESSINGS

SometimesI think we forget to look for the blessings in our lives. Especially those that we never expect.

When I joined Speaking Thru Me Ministry I really needed a current professional headshot. I wasn't sure how I was going to afford this and then I remembered a wonderful photographer that I met at a mother/daughter event this year. She was so kind and patient and I loved her work. I saw her at another event and asked if she would do my headshot. She not only agreed...she volunteered her time and services to me and this ministry. I was so blessed. I hate having my picture taken but she made it so much fun. I felt like a super model for a day. I would highly recommend Mary Rabai, photographer. If you are interested...email me and I can put you in touch with her. She is wonderful and will make you feel so special and beautiful. Thanks Mary.

We have been de-cluttering our house so I have been putting things on craigs list. Today I posted a "free swingset". I was overwelmed with emails and wasn't sure how to go about responding to all of them. A wonderful Christian family came and picked it up. I was so blessed my them that I started looking for other stuff that I could give to them. They went home with a van load.

HIGH HEELS FOR BABIES

I love shoes...and I love high heels...but I think this may be a little young.

Check out this adorable website...

www.heelarious.com

It will make you smile

SPEAKING THRU ME MINISTRY

A few weeks ago I mentioned that I am now part of a new speaking team called Speaking Thru Me. I am on a team with 8 other wonderful women scattered across the United States. We had our first conference call this week and all 9 of us were on the phone together for over an hour. It was like a virtual slumber party. They are incredible women with such faith and desire to serve God. We are led by 2 women who are dedicated to spreading the good news of Jesus Christ. This ministry is exciting for several reasons but here is the biggest....there is not a fee to book a speaker from this ministry. Speaking Thru Me Ministry provides speakers FOR FREE. Many churches can't afford the large fees so they don't have events that could help grow God's Kingdom. If you are part of a church or you are a ministry leader, please check out www.speakingthrume.com

WORD ON THE GO

I am in my car alot. Driving kids to activities, school and etc. I have tried to use this time to listen to Christian radio and mainly times of teaching. We have satellite radio so there is always a wonderful speaker. Today I was listening to Alistair Begg. He was talking about teens and the pressures they go through in particular those who are "cutting" themselves. He said something that was so profound. He said what would it be like if they let His scars replace the ones they made. What if they were able to understand the cuts and scars that Jesus took for them on the cross and replaced His cuts with their's. I am start to understand more and more why teens do this after spending some time with recovering "cutters."

SUMMER PARENTING

I have already realized that this summer is going to be different. As our children become older it seems their social life changes. They are old enough to be able to ride their bikes more places, they are invited to many social events and they are old enough to become a little more independant. This scares me. How do I give them more freedom without constantly worrying about what they are doing. I was really fretting over this today and an idea came to me. Wally and I have decided to sit down with each child and prepare a summer contract. It will state what they are allowed to do and what activites are off limits. In other words...don't even ask to go there. It will also state consequences. I hope this works. I pray that this eliminates the famous saying "I didn't know I couldn't do that...or you never said I couldn't go there." Pray for us...really I mean pray for us...parenting isn't easy.

SCHOOL'S OUT

Summer has officially began in our household. The boys are out of school, Ally gets out in 4 days and I probably won't be called to sub.

I am looking forward to some down time and a more laid back routine. No more rising at 6:00 am to pack lunches and fix breakfast.

I also want to use my summer wisely. Lots of plans to organize my house, go to the pool and work on my speaking schedule.

I am also praying about a part-time job opporunity.

Have a great summer!!!

REFLECTION

As I was driving to work today I heard the sad news about the tragic death of Steven Curtis Chapman's daughter. My heart goes out to this family and especially to the teenage son who was driving. Sometimes life doesn't make sense to me. I know that this beautiful young girl is with Jesus...but I have a heavy burden for this young man. I am so glad that I was teaching at CVCA today and my first period class prayed for this family. It makes one think of the important things in life. Yes...last night a life was changed on American Idol...but lives were changed in the Chapman home hours earlier. Yesterday was the 2 year anniversary of the death of my grandmother. Our lives have never been the same. Lives have been changed in positive ways and relationships have been changed in negative ways as well.

I don't have the answers. I really have no words to say that could comfort anyone going through a difficult time. I cling to the fact that "I don't know what the future holds...but I do know who holds the future."

God's Leading

I read a wonderful article by Jill Briscoe on following God's will. Jill says "Once I sense the direction that God is leading, I need to have a personal Gethsemane, a personal Calvary and a personal Pentecost.

Personal Gethsemane - She explains that this is when you are aligning yourself with the will of God when you don't want to do what He is calling you to do. Our prayer changes to be "like His and that His will be done and not my own."

Personal Calvary - She explains that this is where the "I" gets crucified and we are "dying" to what we really want to do.

Personal Pentecost - This is where Jill says we "receive the power to do what we know deep down we need to do"


GREAT STUFF

THERE'S A DOCTOR IN THE HOUSE

Ashley learned today that she has been accepted into medical school. She will be part of the graduating class of 2012. We are so proud of her and can't wait to see how the Lord will use her in the career.

PERFECT CAREER

Today I was substitute teaching at my favorite school and I had a 2 hour break. I was thinking how blessed I was today to have this time off to relax and do somethings for myself. I asked myself..."What would be my perfect job."

Here it is:

First choice would be a full time career speaking and writing. I would love to be able to put all of my energy and creativity into one area.

Second choice would be teaching a Bible class at a Christian School

Third choice would be working at a church and being part of a "Creative team". I created this job description myself. My only job would be to collaborate with other creative people and plan creative worship services, outreach events, etc.

What's your perfect job?

OPENING DAY!!!

Today is opening day for Twinbsurg Baseball.

The Sand Gnats play at 1:00 and the Mets play at 2:00.

off to the game....

QUOTE OF THE DAY

This is something that makes one nervous when your dog has a digestive problem.

"Mom...Grady (our puppy) smells like syrup again"

It's going to be a long night...

A NEW SEASON FOR ASHLEY

Ashley hit a milestone this weekend as she graduated from college. It's hard to believe that this phase of her education is over! I know that she brought home more then a diploma from Bethel College. She brings home many memories, new friends, wonderful Biblical teaching and a wonderful boyfriend. I am reminded of what Ron Hutchcraft says about evangelism. We go to college to prepare ourselves for a vocation to support our ministry. In other words...we are all evangelists disguised as teachers, lawyers, business men and women and for Ashley...a doctor. We are proud of her and had a wonderful time with friends and family this weekend.

MOM/Manager

I am thrilled to announce that my son's sixth grade rock band has their next gig. They will be doing 3 sets for their school's relay for life. I acted as their temporary manager and booked the "gig" for them. They are so excited!!! So am I. We were finally able to watch a video of them at the school dance. They did great. They are preparing to submit their video to "America's Got Talent" t.v. show.

I am so thrilled that they have big dreams. I hope they never lose their enthusiasm!!!I'll keep you posted on the next Little Rock Three tour date. Let's see if I am their temporary manager...10% sounds fair to me.

LETTER TO ME

Brad Paisley has a song I believe is called "Letter to Me." It's about a letter that he would write now to himself at seventeen if it were possible. In other words...what do I wish I knew at seventeen that I know now. I was thinking back to when I was seventeen and wondering what I wish I could tell that teenage girl. Here are some thoughts...some humorous...some not.

1) Your jeans are too tight and your hair is too high.
2) Never spend more time picking out your outfit then you do picking your friends
3) Embrace every moment with your grandmother...she won't live forever like you believe
4) relationships with boys and girls are not disposable
5) Your mom knows more then you think she does
6) going to an all girl's college won't be easy...and your freshman year homecoming date is going to do something really embarassing at the dance.
7) don't live your life one way on sunday and another way during the week
8) you will have a wonderful husband and 4 great children someday
9) being a Christ follower is better than following any group or anyone else
10) work a little harder in English


What would you like to write to yourself at seventeen?

EXCITING NEWS

I have started writing this entry several times. Each time I think I know what to say...I stop. I can't seem to find the words to express how excited I am about an opportunity that God has brought my way. I am going to be part of a speaking team with some wonderful, incredible, Godly women. Head over to www.speakingthrume.com and check it out for yourself. I am overwhelmed with God's blessing and overjoyed by the sisterhood of these wonderful women. I will share more as everything comes together. If your group or if you know anyone who is looking for a speaker, please pass this website on to them.

GREAT WEEK OF GREAT TEACHING

My prayer this week has been that God give me this strong desire for emersing myself in His word. God is so creative!!! I have been exposed to 4 days of great teaching.

One of the advantages of subbing in 2 Christian schools is the opportunity to be part of staff devotions and chapels.

Monday/Tuesday - Staff devotions consisted of two great sessions on prayer. This question was asked of us "If we truly understand spiritual warfare how would it effect the way we pray?" I never truly asked myself that. The example of Daniel was used. Daniel prayed to God and it took 3 weeks for the answer. Why? Could it have been the battle that was taking place...hmm.

Wednesday - I heard a wonderful chapel presentation on heaven. It was truly an
"Oh yeah" moment. He gave a wonderful visual of how our life now compares to our eternal life in heaven. We are not to hold on to this life so tight...it is so temporary. Our life now compared to our eternal life is like pouring a cup of coffee into the ocean. Our life on earth is the coffee and the ocean is eternity. It made me realize eternity is so hard to grasp. Eternity in heaven will be great but there is also eternity in hell. We should be so zealous to reach the lost.

Wednesday night - I attended a women's Bible study. I almost didn't go. I thought about staying home and cleaning. What...that is crazy...the dirt can wait. We studied Deborah. I love learning about women in the Bible...especially Old Testament Women. She was a strong leader.

Thursay - I attended a chapel service based on Isaiah 55. Another great teaching. The speaker called it "The Great Invitatin."

I can hardly wait to see what I learn tomorrow.

LEARNING FROM KINDERGARTNERS

There is a book titled "Everything I needed to know I learned in kindergarten." I've never read the book so I am not sure what it is about. I don't know why this book crossed my mind the other day but as I was thinking about it I took it one step further. Everything I learned about following Christ I learned from a kindergarten class.

See what I mean:

Evangelism/Servant- I love it when I am teaching kindergartners and I ask for volunteers. All 22 hands will go up even before they know what the task is. It reminds me of what Isaiah said to God when God needed someone to "send" . Isaiah said "send me" They are quick to volunteer and serve. They find joy in the simplest of tasks.

God's Love - The other day a child began to cry in class. When I asked him why he told me that he was missing his mom. I told him that I was a mom and would he feel better if I gave him a "mom hug." This turned into 21 other children missing their moms and all in need of a hug. One child began to cry because he missed his cousin. I explained to them that it had to stop and we we're not going to focus on all of the people (dogs, grandmoms, aunts, neighbors...) that they were suddenly missing. We all feel lonely at times. Sometimes all we need is someone to come alongside us and reach out to us. God calls us to reach out to those who are in need and hurting.


Forgiveness: On a daily basis a kindergarten teacher will hear "he won't share...he won't play with me...etc. They will have their spats...get over it and return to playing with that child. They are quick to forgive and forget. Kindergarteners don't hold grudges.


Teaching/Wisdom: The other day I was doing a puzzle with a few kindergarteners. I thought I knew for sure where a piece went but I was quickly corrected by a 5 year old. I said "how about that...you are smarter then the teacher." "Yep" he replied...even though you've been on this earth a lot longer...I am smarter." Age doesn't always make us smarter. No matter what age we are, we can learn from those who are younger.

POST 150 - Girl's Conference

Yes...this is post #150 on my blog.

I want to share about the girl's conference that I spoke at last weekend. It was amazing. My mom and I were driving to the conference (at 7:00 am in the morning) and we were concerned about the weather report. They were reporting high water in the direction of the conference. I joked to my mom that we would be there "come Hell of high water." Well the high water never came but it seemed like Satan was trying to stop us. On the way I realized that I left my computer and media. So I had to have Wally come and meet my and bring it to me. My mom lost her debit card when we stopped to get gas. (we found it). We were almost to the event and had to be detoured "around the mountain". This delayed our arrival but we finally made it.

It was a great morning. The attendance was low but the girl's were amazing and so honest. We talked alot about the pressures that they face today and intertwined the story of Esther and Queen Vashti. I often feel that Queen Vashti is overlooked when people speak on Esther. Queen Vashti modeled a woman of high morals when she said no to the King. She represents the sacriice that we have to make sometimes when we say "no" to the world.

We had a panel discussion with the girls. Pray for them. Many of them are going through trials and pressures that many of us have faced before. I had a chance to speak to the moms and women of the church. This was so much fun! They were also very honest and blessed me in many ways. I am so thankful that this church has agreed to stand in the gap for the girls. They truly represent what God has called women to be in His Word. I loved the weekend. It was great to "come home to West Virginia." It was the first time that I had ever spoke in my home state. We are already talking about next year.

MODESTY MATTERS...AT ANY AGE

I spent most of Thursday preparing for a speaking engagement between classes. I was asked to travel to Crum, West Virginia to speak at a girl's retreat on self image, modesty and purity. I was walking down the hall of the school where I was teaching that day and I felt a "draft" in the back. I went to the restroom and realized that my skirt's slit had become a little larger. Here I am preparing to teach young girl's the importance of selecting modest clothing and my outfit did not fit the parameters. What could I do? I was too far away from home to change and did not have time to find a new skirt. I had an idea. I went to the secretary and asked if I could borrow her stapler. I then proceeded to the bathroom and stapled my slit. I had to do this twice that day...but a lesson was learned. No matter what our age, we are not immuned to making mistakes with our dress. The skirt will not be given away. Why would I want to pass it on to someone else when I don't feel it is a modest piece of clothing? It will be thrown away and replaced. I love to shop!!!

OUT OF THE DESERT

After experiencing a major disapointment last week...I decided that my pity party had to end. Why? There is work that needs to be done. Besides I was gaining weight from all the comfort food. I thought about writing a cookbook called "desserts for the deserts". After a brief getaway to West Virginia, I realized that if I stay in the "desert" too long...work goes unfinished. When I say work I mean God's work.



I am speaking at a retreat for young girls next weekend and I had a chance to meet with the youth leader. She is an amazing woman and her heart truly aches for her girls. They are going through what many teens are going through today. Struggling with self image, acceptance, self-esteem, relationships etc. I am excited about the event and I needed to leave my desert in order to prepare. I neeeded that motivation.



I also experienced what it truly means to pray for one another and lift each other in prayer. I am in the process of applying to join a speaking team. The ministry is called Speaking Thru Me.
I posted a prayer request on their site and I was blessed. It was awesome to log on to their site and see a beautiful prayer that was sent on my behalf to our Lord. It made me feel like I'm not alone in this endeavor. I truly have people who are interceding on my behalf.

I know that there will be other "desert" times in my walk. I also know that it can be a time of refinement and reflection. If you find yourself in a desert today find a way out. Better yet...go to the one who can lead you out. Depend on others. Be vulnerable and share your pain with those who will pray for you.

GRACE TEACHES MATH

The other day I was subbing in a 4th grade class. I was responsible for math and science. The class started out well and it went downhill from there. I had 4 or 5 students that refused to listen and cooperate. The teacher has a card system for discipline. Every student begins with the color green and has to flip to a new color each time they are disobedient. We were flipping cards faster than a Texas hold'em game. It was finally time to switch to a new teacher and I had an idea. How could I use this situation to teach a Biblical truth in public school. I asked the class to tell me what the word "grace" meant. One boy said it was what you say before you eat. One student said it was giving someone "joy". I explained to them that grace means getting something you don't deserve. I then demonstrated grace to them. I took each card and returned it to the first color. The board looked like every child had been obedient. I told them that I was taking away their punishment and giving them another chance. Their little jaws dropped. I said..."today you have been given grace". Later that day when they returned to me I asked them how they felt about their grace-given day. They explained to me when they switched classes the other teacher did not believe that everyone had been obedient and asked what had happened. They told her about "grace" and she made each child return their card to the color that they had received as punishment. Oh well...I guess "grace" has left the building.

Handling Disapointment

My family has had a week of disapointments. My brother has been actively seeking a job after being abruptly layed off recently. Even though he is in no danger of being homeless or starving, he desires to be employed and back to work. He was given a very generous severance but still does not want to be unemployed. He had a job interview this week that looked very promising. Unfortunately...it didn't work out. Ashley suffered a stress facture and is possibly facing the possibility of being out for the rest of the season. My response to both of them was encouragement and the reminder that "God is in control." Today, disapointment came my way. It's not necessary to go into details but to say that I had my heart set on something and it did not work out the way I had hoped...okay...planned. Yes...I thought my plan was better.

How did I handle the disapointment? I'd like to say that I took the high road and brushed myself off and moved on. Nope! I cried! I locked my dog out of my bedroom and had myself a good cry. I went downstairs to where Wally was working and I cried some more. I went upstairs to my room again and yes...I cried. I am so dehydrated right now I can hardly type.

One thing that I have learned so far. Yes...this only happened an hour ago so I think learning one thing is a start. I learned how I wanted people to respond to me. I didn't want people to offer me advice, I didn't want people to hug me or feel sorry for me. I didn't even want people to offer my chocolate (maybe later) I wanted people to say I'm sorry, I love you and I'm praying for you. I even told my friend that I am not even at a place where hearing "this wasn't God's plan" is comforting. I believe it...I am just not there yet to claim it. Just being honest.

I know that I am going to feel better tomorrow. I'm feeling better already. It just made me realize how I need to respond to people when they face disapointment. Bye...I'm welling up again.

SCRIPTURE

This scripture continues to go through my mind today.


Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.


Phil 4:6

LITTLE ROCK THREE

My son's band has their first real "gig" today. The school he attends is having a 6th grade dance from 3-5. Their band is called "Little Rock 3". A very enthusiastic boy stepped up and volunteered to be the band's manager. He wrote letters to the administrative and secured the "gig" for the band. I love his creativity and spunk. The band met with the principal twice and reviewed expectations. I am so excited that the administrative is encouraging the boys and their endeavor. The band will be excused from class early so they can "set-up". They will be playing three songs. One song is original and was written by a member. I am so proud of Austin. We bought a new outfit for the big day.

I am also proud of Austin for another reason. All this week 6th graders are "pairing up" for the big day. If you know me well you know my passion for teaching children at a young age the importance of making wise decisions when it comes to relationships. I had a talk with him about this and how fragile girl's hearts are at this age. I told him that he was not allowed to even give a girl the appearance that he was going to be someone's date. I know I can't be with him at the event...I am just trusting that he will obey and take heart what I said. Even though I'm not watching...I told him God is. (I also know the chaperones...ha ha)

MY DAY OFF

Today I had a much needed day off. I could have worked at two different schools but I began physical therapy on my ankle today. It went well and ended with a 15 minute massage of my ankle. It was great.


Today also gave me a whole day to myself and a chance to really talk and hear from God. As I was praying about a situation in my life, God reminded me of something. I felt God was asking me "Which do you want more...the situation or ME?"

HEART FOR CHILDREN

Sometimes I am asked why I work in Children's Ministry. Two situations came up yesterday that affirm that calling.

Both situations involved families being drastically altered because of a choice that an adult made. When I heard about both...my heart and thoughts went directly to the children. They are innocent and are many times the ones that suffer the most. My thoughts were..."wonder how the children are...wonder who is protecting the children...wonder if there is anything that I could do for the children." It makes me realize how many times their little lives are changed forever because of the selfishness of an adult.

I also believe that I have a passion for children because of the way I was raised and the influences in my life. In one of the cases...a child did reach out. They didn't reach out to the parents, grandparents or anyone else in their family...the child reached out to my mom...the child's teacher. He didn't want to talk to anyone else...he wanted her. Why...because she loves this child unconditionally. People who are trying to protect this child tracked my mom down and made sure she had access to the child. My mom made sure that she did all that she could to reach this child. Knowing her...there wasn't anything that was going to stop her contacting this hurting person. She was able to contact him and he knows he is loved.

My sisters are always sharing stories of how they go above and beyond to reach out to children Both have dedicated their lives to children and hurting people. My sister called me today and I could hardly hear. Why? Because she had takend a down syndrome child to a basketball game. The school was in the playoffs and she wanted to make sure that this darling girl had the same experience as the other children. If there are children in your life...love them...protect them...and do whatever it takes to make sure they have a great day today...and tomorrow.

CREATIVE CHILDREN

This weekend was a busy weekend for me. I had a weekend full of events and meetings. My children took advantage of being snowed in and used it as an opportunity to encourage me. They made a gigantic chocolate chip cookie. They decorated the cookie and put "congrats" on this lovely dessert. I asked them what would they have done if I came home discouraged? They said they would have adjusted the word to "rats". Very creative! The interesting thing was the cookie was half eaten before I came home...the words remained. That's okay...I really appreciated them thinking of me!!Love ya.

QUOTE OF THE DAY

You know you are getting old when you are looking for spot remover for your skin and not your clothes!

Mystery Dinner

This weekend Wally and I are attending a "Mystery Dinner" with 3 other couples. If you ever have a chance to attend one...go. Each person is assigned a character. You have to dress and act the part. The setting is 1936 at Watersdown Mansion in Yorkshire. A murder has been committed and no one knows who the murderer is. The case is solved as the evening progresses. It 's like a live game of clue. I am Miranda T. Shetes a beautiful and young American actress. Wally is Roger S.B. Astrid the illegitimate son who was kidnapped at birth by his nurse. This should be a lot of fun.

I look forward to doing fun and creative things. I have also taken on a new challenge. I am organizing a family reunion for my dad's side of the family. If everyone attends...there should be about 60 people. I hope it all comes together. We are planning on a two day event over labor day.

Retreat

I recently received an invitation to possibly speak at a retreat for teenage girls in my home state of West Virginia. Finally I get a chance to speak to people who talk like I do. (ha ha) It's like going home. My heart broke when I read the email from the youth leader. You can tell that she is really carrying a burden for the young girls and their stuggles. I am praying that everything falls into place. We know that this is something that Satan doesn't want to see happen and will try to discourage those involved.

It seems that it has definately been a theme this week...teenage girls and their struggles. I was encouraged by a conversation I had with a senior high gal this week. She was telling me how her eyes were opened by something that she heard a speaker say about self-image. Her friends and her decided to begin a "no make-up friday." On fridays, they don't wear any make-up and do not use electricity to fix their hair on Fridays. They come to school like this and they encourage each other throughout the day. This may seem trivial to some...but it is a big step to a teenage girl. I am thankful for the model that they are setting for their younger peers. I asked myself if I could do this at my age. Could I show up to teach without make-up. I have to think about that one...could you?

HOW DO YOU MAKE A DECISION

This weekend I had to make a decision and honestly...I wasn't sure what I was going to do. I prayed and prayed, I had each person who was home at the time give me their advice. I still couldn't make a decision. I was teaching Kindergarten the other day and we were talking about how Gideon "threw out his fleece." So...I did something different...I threw out my malti-poo puppy Grady. I sat Grady down and explained to him the nature of the decision. I told Grady if he jumped on the couch my decision would go one way and if he didn't...the decision would go the other way. I put Grady down...we all watched...and Grady JUMPED on the couch. Decision was made. Now...please don't think I was crazy and that we put important decisions in the hands or paws of our dog. I sort of had an idea of what I really wanted to do...Thanks Grady.

KINDERGARTEN MISSIONARIES

I love it when God speaks to me. Today I was driving to VCA to teach kindergarten and a great idea came to me. My mom is a kindergarten teacher in a public school in West Virginia. How cool would it be if my Christian School class called her public school class and sang to them. We could put my cell phone on speaker and she could do the same. I sat my 18 darlings down and we talked about being missionaries. We talked about how a missionary is someone who tells people about Jesus. Many times missionaries have to reach out to places that are far away. We talked about where West Virginia was. I thought it was humorous when one student asked what language they spoke in West Virginia. Our call was scheduled for 10:55. We called and sang Jesus Loves Me to the students at Kanawha City Elementary. They in return sang us the peanut butter song. Oh well...you have to start somewhere.

BLESSED BY A FIVE YEAR OLD

I have gotten into a really bad habit. When I come home from teaching I lay down and take a nap. The other day I was resting and I heard a noise outside. It sounded like someone was shoveling the 3 inches of snow from our driveway. Wally was working from home so I just assumed that it was him. A few minutes later the doorbell rang and it was my five year old neighbor. He said "I shoveled your driveway." I thought he was kidding...HE WASN'T. This little five year boy shoveled over half of our driveway and sidewalk. He did an incredible job. I was speechless. His mom said he just decided on his own to come and do this for us. I was blown away by his servant's heart, by his dedication to finish a job and his ability. He blessed me more then he'll ever know. I am going to do a little something for him. One more thing...this darling little boy was recently diagnosed with mild autism. I think he has a bright future ahead of him.

IF I COULD LIVE ANYWHERE...

If I could live anywhere...I would consider moving to Pennsylvania? Why?Some of the best people I have ever met...live in PA. I had the honor...no the privledge of being a part of two pretreats with some wonderful women from PA. My first visit was in January of 2006. I came to the retreat as their speaker not knowing what to expect. I left there with 40 new girlfriends. What a wonderul surprise it was when they asked me to come back and be their speaker again this year. This time I wasn't going to spend the weekend with women I didn't know. This time it was like coming home. I looked forward to the reunion. It was WONDERFUL.

Many things had changed in those 2 years. Women got married. Babies were born. Bones were broken and my favorite...solos were sung. The last time I was with them I asked the women to talk about their dreams and what God was calling them to do. One lady, Mary, humbly spoke up and said that she always wanted to sing a solo in church. Guess what...Mary sang her solo in church and now Mary sings on a regular basis. That was so cool to hear. She just beamed as she talked about putting aside her fears and serving.

It was a great weekend. We ate alot. We laughed a lot and we talked about God A lot. Our theme was "Living Like There's No Tomorrow." Ashley came with me and did my "tech" for me. It was great spending time with her and seeing how much she enjoyed the women. We are never too young or old to learn from other women. I love that. We both won wonderul gift baskets and enjoyed showing the women the fun and joy of "dance, dance revolution."

One of my favorite women in the whole world was there. Her name is Jo Anne and we connected two years agao. Jo Anne was so faithful to email me consitently over the 2 years. She is one of those women who just make you feel better each you are around her. SHe has more energy then a 20 year old. I love Jo Anne and the others. I hope they invite me back next year.

Reconnected With Friends

Our Christmas card search has paid off and I have heard from another long lost friend. You may remember that Wally and I decided to try and find some military friends that we had lost contact with this year. We searched the internet and found an address and mailed cards and christmas letter. I was so excited when I received an email from my friend Robin. We were neighbors in Colorado. Robin's husband was in the army so we had alot in common. I believe that we had a relationship that is very typical of military wives. We bonded immediately and felt connected as military wives. She is one of the few people who knows what a bx stands for...what it means to receive a pcs and can definately understand the importance of "your sponsor's I.D. Number. We had children similar ages and spent many hours in each other's yards. We took decorating classes together, shopped gap sales together and more importantly volunteered as Young Life leaders together. The last time I saw her was when Alex was just a baby. We visited them when we were on vacation and they were stationed in South Carolina. We have promised each other not to lose contact again. She now lives in Pennsylvania. We are still hoping to here from one more family.

HOLIDAYS CONTINUED

We are finally off the road after traveling to West Virginia and Chicago for the holidays. The food is in the oven , the fire is lit and we are ready to bring in the new year with some special people. My mom and sister are in town from West Virginia and Todd is visiting for a few days from Indiana. It feels good to be home.

I am so grateful that this holiday season was spent connecting and reconnecting with loved ones. I have already heard from one of the families that we tracked down this year with our Christmas Cards. I received an email from a dear friend of mine from Virginia who now lives in Las Vegas. I also had a chance to reconnect with a sister in law and niece that we rarely see in Chicago. It made me realize how important family is and nothing should stand in the way of when it comes to spending time together. The past is the past and it is great to move on.

The highlight of our Christmas in West Virginia. Yes...it's even better than the wii, was spending time with a special gal namd Amanda.

I met Amanda in september when I was a facilitator at an event called challenge day at a high school in West Virginia. Amanda was in my mentoring group. Amanda has Down Syndrome. I love being around her. She is always smiling, always giving hugs and enjoys life to the fullest. She has become very attached to my sister Patty since she works at the school where Amanda attends. Amanda visits with her each day and even considers Patty her angel. We had a ball taking her to the mall. She even put on a spontaneous dance show at American Eagle. Amanda has a spirit that would benefit us all. Here are some pics.

Happy New Year.

CHRISTMAS WRAP UP (GET IT HA HA)

I am using one laptop while Wally is on another and sitting 6 feet from me. He is emailing me his Christmas list so I can use my cell phone to call Ashley on her cell phone while she shops at Target.

Gotta love technology.

Happy to say that the homemade christmas gifts went off with without a hitch. Can't say what they are since this blog is read by family.

I am putting the final touches on my gift for my mom and Wally is downloading some songs for my dad's gift (MP 3 player) I know he doesn't read my blog!!!

Gifts are wrapped and in 4 hours we will be off on our trip. Six people, 2 dogs, gifts, suitcases, and of course a guitar. (tylenol is packed also)



Merry Christmas

Homemade Christmas Gifts

It'a 7:20 pm and the official making the homemade christmas present has begun. I picked a no fail easy craft this year...that's what I said about the fleece gloves and the pillowcase angels. Why do we do this every year? Why do we battle with glue guns, modge podge and boys who believe they should be able to out grow this tradition?

Because when I am a grandmother, I want my tree to be full of homemade ornaments. I want my dresser to be decorated with things that their little hands made and yes...I want my children to experience the fun of picking the craft and carrying on this tradition.

I am enjoying myself here on the computer watching videos like this one:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9yAkBSrMk0

Merry Christmas

IF YOU'RE HAVING A BAD DAY WATCH THIS VIDEO

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_OBlgSz8sSM

POWERFUL VIDEO

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZWjQUerta8

the annie and grady show!

SLOWING DOWN

So I was forced yesterday to toss the to do list, forget about all that needed to be done and rest. I wish I could say it was because of my sincere realization that I was getting caught up in the busyness of Christmas and losing the true meaning but I can't. As I was leaving to take Ally to the bus stop I fell on the ice and severely sprained my ankle. It suddenly swelled up the size of an orange...okay maybe a tangerine. I was determined not to let this stop me so I continued with my busy plans. This led to an E.R. visit, a small cast and crutches and yes...some pain medication that I am a little afraid to take.

Why didn't I just listen and rest? The crutches hurt worse than the sprain. So I am now depending on my family to pick up the slack and finish the list. Or maybe we should just chuck this list and rest.

Weekend Rewind

I am sitting here sipping a cup of warm coffee, two cute puppies lie at my feet and I am the only one awake in a warm quiet house. Schools are closed today and life is good. We had a semi-relaxing weekend filled with friends and various holiday activities.

Ally and I went to tower city and enjoyed some shopping time together while Wally took the boys to the Cavaliers game. Twinsburg Basketball league takes the teams every year to watch the game and to scrimmage on the court where Lebron does his magic. When they came home Austin said "Mom you won't believe who I had my picture taken with." Of course I knew it was Lebron and asked to see it. It wasn't Lebron...it was the CAVALIER GIRLS! Much to my dismay...Austin has a picture of him smack in the middle of 4 scantly dressed cheerleaders!

WHAT! If anyone knows me they know my passion for teaching young girls the importance of modesty. My girls know our standards and know how selective we are when selecting clothes.
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SHAME ON YOU!!! Did you really think I would show the picture? (ha ha) I told Austin he could hang the picture in his room after I drew some clothes on them. Looks like it's time to get the old Joshua Harris book out and have a talk. I think I need more coffee.

SNOWY SUNDAY

WE ARE HAVING A BLIZZARD!!That didn't stop me from going to a cookie exchange with some great friends. We made over 400 cookies! The ride home was a little scary...but I survived.

MEET MISS ANNIE

WE LOVE MISS ANNIE!!!!!!!!

SOMEBODY CALL GQ

WHIRLWIND TRIP TO INDIANA

Ashley invited us all up to her sports banquet. We left at 12:45 pm, drove 4 hours, had dinner, coffee and dessert and then back in the car for the 4 hour trip home. It was worth it. First of all, we had the chance to meet Todd McLaughlin. Todd is a young man that Ashley has begun dating. We were so pleased to meet someone who was gentle, respectful and most importantly...a man after God's heart. Todd is in the worship band at Bethel College. He is using his talents in many ways to serve the Lord. We were blessed to listen to his music on the way home. This is definately a new chapter in Ashley's life and one that she is approaching with prayer and patience. We are so proud of how she has guarded her heart and followed God's direction in this area. It's not easy to live a lifestyle of purity but it is wonderful to see how the Lord blesses the one who does. It was sad to see one chapter of her life end. This was her final season of cross country.It's also exciting to see a new chapter begin.

CHRISTMAS GIFTS

I wanted to share 2 gift giving ideas that come from the heart.

Last year I took a picture of each child doing an activity that they enjoyed. I had the picture enlarged to 8 1/2 x 11 and framed in a floating frame. At the bottom of the picture I added the caption

"This is my child, whom I love, with him/her (depending on which child)I am well pleased." Matthew 17:5

I think the kids really enjoyed them and they are now handing in our living room.

This year I am going to do something special just from me. I am calling it "I thought of you when I saw this gift." It will be labeled that way.

I am going to pick out a gift for each child just from me. I want to find something that reminded me of them when I was shopping.

Just some thoughts.

Misc.

So much to share....

Retreat - I had the chance to speak at a youth retreat recently. I have to say that it was one of the best retreats that I have ever been a part of. The students were attentive, honest and it was exciting to see the next generation worshiping God with all their hearts. I left encouraged and not excited.

Jiss Briscoe - Jill Briscoe came to speak to Ashley's college recently. Ashley shared what a grear woman of God Jill is and how she inspires you with her knowledge and love of the Word. I can't wait to download the message. She is 72 years young and is such a wonderful example of a life well lived and a life totally surrendered to Christ.


Basketball - both of the boy's teams are off to a winning start. Congrats to Austin for scoring 6 points.

Catalyst - I can't believe how much fun you can have removing drywall and insulation with energetic and enthusiastic college students. Make me want to go back to school....not.

Christmas - It's here and I am trying not to get caught up in the chaos. I'm off to spend the evening making buckeyes with 2 of my most favorite people.

I will share tomorrow some gift giving ideas.

THANKSGIVING CHEF

NEW ORLEANS HAS EMERIL LAGASSE

LOS ANGELES HAS WOLFGANG PUCK

THE SOUTH HAS PAULA DEAN

TWINSBURG HAS ALEX TRACHSEL

Meet Grady

Many of you know by now that we had to put our dog down a few weeks. I won't go into the details...too sad...but just know that Wally sat with him until the end. I am not sure I could have done that...but it says alot about Wally's character that he didn't want Cody to be alone. Cody was very attached to me...so I do miss him. I miss the way he was always excited to see us when we came home. I miss the way he would always lay down with me for our three o'clock rest. I miss him coming up to me and nudging my hand until I rubbes his head.

Cody made us realize how much we loved having a dog around. I went away on a retreat last weekend and I received a call that we had an "appointment" to look at a dog when I returned. The key word is "look". When you have children...you never go and just look...you come home with a dog.

Well...we have adopted an adorable little dog. He is a mix of a maltese and poodle. A malti-poo.

He fits into build a bear clothes...so he has a fabulous wardrobe.

So...meet Grady.

JUST MAKES ME LAUGH