BAPTISM

Just wanted to post some pictures of Alex and Patty's baptism.

It was a great morning.

HOW WAS YOUR CHRISTMAS

That question will be asked alot in the coming days. How will you answer? I will answer "blessed". We truly had a blessed christmas this year. It wasn't stressful...it was blissful. I think I truly felt the Christmas spirit this year. It wasn't about the malls or the to do lists...it was about people. It was so great have alot of family in town for Christmas. Here were our highlights:

- Christmas eve service with two rows of family in attendance
- fun dollar store gift exchange on christmas eve
- the annual opening of the christmas pjs for the kids
- Christmas day brunch
- opening gifts one at a time
- christmas day prime rib and ham dinner
- homemade gift tradition.

This year we made heirloom ornaments as our homemade gift for family. The ornament included a special picture of a loved one who is no longer with us. They turned out great. I am so proud of the girls for working so hard on them. I also included a letter with a few of my gifts to my mom, mom-in-law, daughter and sisters. We can tell them how much we love them but a letter will last forever and can be read over and over.

Dad and wally's mom received handmade fleece blankets. They both loved them very much. I bought my mom and sisters a necklace with a star fish charm. The starfish reminded me of our annual beach trip. The place where we stay uses the starfish as its logo. The beach trip is a special time each year and it could not be possible without them.

Allison has taken a real interest in sewing so she received a dress form and lots of project runway supplies. It was fun seeing her sewing with wally's mom last night.

I gave my dear friend sandi an encouragement box. I saw the idea on Oprah. It is a small box with a letter inside telling her how much her friendship means to me. Her birthday is soon...so another letter will go in her box.

For those of you who live in the area...you may notice a special necklace that I am wearing. It is a simple puzzle piece on a piece of leather. I made one for myself, Ashley, my mom and sisters. Why? Difficult times have come into each one of our lives. Sometimes it is so hard to understand why? We only see the small picture while God sees the Big picture. It seems at times like a "puzzle" with a piece missing. We need to be reminded that He holds the pieces...even the one that we think is missing.

Tonight we will be visiting with more friends and a great moment will take place tomorrow...Alex and my sister will be baptized. Then we are off to West Virginia.

Yep...it was a blessed Christmas. Hope your's was too.

CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS

We have returned from the windy city and are awaiting the arrival of more family. This will be the first Christmas that both families are celebrating together. Wally's mom came back with us and my parents and sisters are on their way as I type. I am so excited!!!The presents are wrapped, the stockings are hung and it's going to be a blessed holiday.

The other day I went to help our church youth group wrap presents at the mall. As I got out of my car I looked down and saw a piece of paper frozen in the snow.

I tried to pick it up but it would not budge. It was someone's Christmas list. Actually is was someone named Greg's Christmas list.






I read the list and it said the following:

(I actually had my camera with me so I immediately thought...blog entry)

Ipod cover
jeans

and a few other things

So why was the list on the ground.

Did a frustrated shopper give up and toss it out the window?

Was it dropped my a stressed out shopper?

Who knows. When I saw the list two things came to my mind:

1) I hope Greg gets everything on his list
2) Has Greg received the most important gift of Christmas? Does he know the reason for the season?


I hope Greg gets an ipod cover...I hope he gets jeans...but most of all...I hope he has Jesus.

Merry Christmas

CHRISTMAS CARD

AFTER MANY MANY TRIES...HERE IS THE CHRISTMAS PICTURE.

ENJOY

PROVERBS 31 WOMAN

Yesterday I was reading the story of Jesus' birth. I was mainly interested in the story of Mary and Elizabeth. Both women were surprised to hear that they were expecting a child. I wanted to be reminded of their obedient character and their willingness to trust God. It made be question if I had the same attitude...I don't.

Then to beat myself up some more...I read the description of the Proverbs 31 woman. I was ready to crawl into a whole until I read verse 25.


"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come."

I don't know about the clothing part...but I can LAUGH.

I have laughed a lot lately...especially when I am making over 400 buckeyes with my dear friends.

LAUGH A LOT TODAY!!!

SIMPLICATION UPDATE

Sold a computer today!!!! I am on my way to getting rid of STUFF!!!

THE MANGER

We just returned from a wonderful holiday weekend in West Virginia. We had a ball spending time with family. We had 16 people for dinner. Yummo!!!

A tradition was changed this year and we did not wake up at the crack of dawn to hit the mall. You know what? That was okay!!! We slept in and ventured out at a reasonable hour.

It was fun decorating mom's house for Christmas and putting up the beautiful red and white tree.

As we were unpacking I found the nativity set that we had when we were small. It is ceramic and each piece is handpainted with detail.

I found the cradle but I could not find baby Jesus. I am sure it is packed in a separate box or possibly even lost. I remember as a child we would always hide the baby Jesus and replace it with a small army guy or my favorite...the rubber cookie monster. We were mischevious pastor's kids.

This behavior might be expected of children but it reminded me that even as adults we sometimes take Jesus out of the manger and replace Him with other things.

My prayer is that this Christmas I do not get caught up in the holiday and forget the true meaning. Ashley and I were walking through the mall and commenting on how stressed everyone looked. They weren't smiling...they were frowning and looked tired and weary. We made a point to smile at people and to encourage tired clerks.

God, please keep me focused this holiday. Let me not take my eyes off you.

One more thing...

The other day I was asked what God was teaching me.

I am not one who cries easily....really...but I broke down and said...simplicity.

GOd is teaching me patience and the importance of the simple things. I have a plan. I want to simplify my life and rid myself of "things".

I am going to start selling tons of stuff on craigs list. I am talking longaberger baskets, home dec items, jewelry, clothes. If I don't need it, use it and if it's not nailed down...it's going.

If you want to view my items...let me know.

UPDATES

I have really neglected this blog...that's okay...no one is complaining.

Here is a little of what has been happening:

- received a very last minute request to speak at a ladies gathering. I immediately said yes..why...because it was so last minute...I had no time ro prepare so I knew it had to be all God. God is so amazing. The message came together and it was a wonderful evening.

- waiting to here back from a job interview today.

- leaving for west virginia in a few hours to spend time with family. Can't wait for our morning cups of coffee and maybe a trip to the auction

- been a crazy month of parenting. God continues to show me how so many times we can do nothing but pray. It seems that each child has something going on in their lives right now that will result in growth and hopefully a deeper relationship with Him.

- I sit here thinking about how thankful I am for the simple things in life.
My crazy dog who makes me smile and has learned to scratch my back on command, a warm cup of coffee, a snuggly quilt, the stillness of the morning, spontaneous trip to starbucks in a blizzard last night, great friends, great family, and a God who loves me more than I can fathom. I wish the above for everyone...love ya all.

EMPLOYMENT UPDATE

This week I applied for 2 full time jobs. I am excited about both opportunities and I am leaving it in God's hands. Where he leads...I will follow.

Today I was checking out an employment website and applied online for a substitute teacher position. Fifteen minutes later the phone rang. There is a school that is experiencing a huge increase in enrollment. The school is an "arts" school. The arts are incorporated in math, science, english, etc. The pay is much higher then other schools and this would be a long term position. I am going to check them out on tuesday. I would love to have my own class for a long period of time. They will even help you become certified to teach full time.

Pray for me...I don't want to get my hope up...but...it's all up to Him.

I especially want to be teacher during the holidays...they get soem great gifts. (ha ha)

STICKS CONFERENCE

Today I am at the Sticks Conference. There are some great speakers here and I thought about blogging about some of the great things I heard from the keynote speaker Mark Batterson. Then...I went down to the prayer room and I heard from the best speaker of all...God.

Here is what He said

"Don't just pray when all else fails...pray before, during and after it fails"

There are some people very close to me who are struggling with some big issues. Know that I am praying for you!!! Know that God loves you more than anyone. Know that He never moves...He is always there to catch us when we fall, to put us back on our feet or to carry us through.

I do want to share one thing that Mark shared. Sometimes we focus too much on the small perspective. When we are going through hard times...we focus on the small and not how it fits into the big picture. It may seem BIG now...but it really is just a small piece of a larger picture.

Mark also said that we are always praying that people will come to church. We need to stop praying for the "coming" and be part of the "going." We need to be the ones who GO and bring them.

I enjoyed his talk and even gave him a personal prayer request.

FIREPROOF

Last night our care group went to the movie "Fireproof:. I highly recommend the movie. It was a great example of what God has called us to in a marriage.

The other day in church...this became a visual for me. I was standing beside Wally who is 6'3". I am 5'4" and I was wearing flats. He actually stood over a head taller than me. It made me realize that because of his height...he can possibly see things that I can't and he can see things coming before I do. As the leader of our home...he is our protector and it is important that he sees things better than anyone in the home. God called us to be a "helpmate" to our spouse. Someone told me that God made us from a "rib" so that are at our husband's side. Not from a foot to walk over us.

Great job Wally!!!

I AM SO TIRED!!!!!

There is not a word to express how tired I am. We just finished the outreach that our church does every october. Our entire family was involved. Last night my team counted and we acted our scene 99 times. Literally 99 times. Our scene was very emotional. In this scene...my husband in life and in the drama dies. We have to be very emotional. My the 90th take...I was literally justing saying my lines. There was no emotion left in me.

It was a great event and lots of great stories have been told. We had 4000 people attend and way over 400 people gave their life to Christ.

I had so many great things happen last week as I subbed at three different school.

That will have to come later...I am too tired...

I am grateful for one thing today...I voted early and won't have to worry about lines tomorrow.

VOTE!!!

GIRL MATTERS CONFERENCE

I am so excited!!!!A few months ago I had an idea for a girl's conference for girls 3rd through 6th grade and their moms. I continued to pray about this and began to outline what the conference would look like. On a whim I decided to propose the idea to an organization and so far the answer is yes. I am meeting with the leadership team on Monday. If you can remember to pray for us that would be great. This would take place Spring of '09. The name of the conference is

GIRL MATTERS...because girls matter.

THE FAMILY THAT SERVES TOGETHER...

Every year our church holds an outreach event called Judgement House . It is a walk through drama for two weekends. It takes at least 200 people to pull this off each weekend. For the first time, our entire family has a part in the outreach. Wally and I are acting. His character is killed in an automobile accident and I am the grieving widow. I have to cry a lot. Ashley and Ally are playing the nurse in the scene. They have the job of pulling the sheet over Wally's head. Austin is an extra in the cafe scene and Alex will be a "door knocker". This is a very important job. He knocks on the door so I will know when to enter my scene.

It is going to be a busy October so we are leaving today to visit family in West Virginia. Can't wait to see my nephew play football, my niece in her horse show, shopping, morning coffee with my family, and hopefully a trip to the local auction.

Wally and Austin will be staying behind for some male bonding and heart to heart "man" talk. I am so excited to return home on Sunday to see them and to see my new floors that wally will be installing.

Have a great weekend.

PRAYER FOR OUR CITY

Last night I attended an incredible prayer group. A few months ago the Twinsburg Board of Education made the decision to stop praying before meetings. You can read the article here. One citizen felt a strong conviction for this and began a prayer meeting that meets at the library. I attended the prayer meeting. What an incredible experience to be praying with people you don't even know...but feel like you have known forever. What bonded us together? We each shared a passion for the Lord and for seeing our city experience His love. We prayed for the schools, safety forces, government and residents. I will definately be at next month's meeting.

WE ARE ALMOST THERE

Where you ask? We are almost to the place where it will be harder to find a free night on weekends for us to do something as a family. Our kids are at the age where they have busier social schedules than us. They enjoy going to football games with their friends, they want to shop and go to movies on weekends...with their friends. They want to hang out at their friend's homes...with other friends. I am okay with that. I remember those days.

Last night was an unusual night. The 3 younger children had no plans. WHAT!!!

So I found an event that we could go to as a family for under $15.

The twinsburg historical society was hosting a graveyard tour of famous people who lived in twinsburg. I called to make sure that this was not going to be a "scary" event. Everyone reluctantly agreed to go. We went to the historical society and began the night with free starbucks coffee, homemade cookies, hot chocolate and pizza.

Our guide carried a lantern and 100 of us began the tour at the "vault".

As we approached the grave yard...40 high schoolers were dressed in costumes from the 1800's and were singing amazing grace.

Each student stood beside a tombstone and reenacted the part of the person who had died. They shared their story and it was very interesting and humorous. It lasted about an hour and I believe we all learned something. Yes...I think I even saw my teenagers laugh and smile a few times.

All in all...it was a great night that ended with food from McDonalds.

So what's tonight...One is going to a party and one is going shopping and one will still be hanging around mom and dad at a hayride.

Oh...it was good while it lasted.

THE BURRITO FIASCO

If you ever need an emotional lift...hang around a child. My mom continually shares with us stories from her kindergarten class. This is the best so far:

Mom was monitoring the lunch room with her "cutey patooties" and it was burrito day. She did her usual opening up the milk and making sure everyone was eating nicely and quietly. She noticed that two of her students seemed to eat a little faster since their tortilla shells were already gone. Mom asked them why they ate the shell first. They replied "Oh we didn't eat them...we are using them as napkins." They had neatly placed the tortilla shells across their little laps.

So the next time you go to Taco Bell...don't ask for a napkin...just another shell.

QUOTE OF THE DAY

I heard this quote today from Anita Renfroe as I was driving kids to the bus:



"If my body really is the temple of the Holy Spirit...then I must be a Mega Church"

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PA PA

Two special people want to send Pa Pa a very special birthday wish

PERSONAL REVIVAL

I grew up in a time when the word "revival" was used alot in the church. Our church would schedule revivals that would last for usually a week. The word revival has taken on a new meeting for me. It isn't something that can usually be scheduled...it just happens.

I have sensed a personal revival lately. Things that use to bother me or upset me don't. Things that use to have a lot of meaning in my life...don't. Things that use to not have top priority in my life...do.

It is almost scary to type this post because I know I will be tested.

The biggest area I see change in is in material things. I have been selling things on the internet lately. Things that I use to hold on to very tightly. Things that had sentimental value...things that had monetary value. I recently took a huge load of shoes and clothes to a resell shop. Clothes that still fit, but were never worn.

I realized that a purse really is just a purse.

A basket really is just a basket.

Today I am going to sell something that once held a special place in my home and was once a "must have."

I am hoping to use the money to pay off some bills.

Tonight we are going to go hear some missionaries speak. They are a great example of people who gave up everything to go and serve. A lighter load really is better.

They Said It's Never Too Late

Wally and I hosted a parenting seminar at our house Sunday. No...we were not the speakers...we invited 2 couples from our church that have raised 7 boys between them. Not just any boys...boys that love God and their families. Boys that are respectful, fun and would make any mom proud to have as a son-in-law.

We asked them "How did you raise such great boys?" For the next 2 hours they shared some wonderful advice with us and 2 other couples. It was a great time full of advice, great food and alot of laughter.

Here are some highlights:

1) It is never too late to influence your sons. It is never too late to implement rules and to enforce responsibilities.
2) We are their parents...not their friends
3) Pray is everything
4) You must be the one that talks to your sons about girls, dating, relationships. We can't leave it up to anyone else.
5) Remember grace

WORKS FOR ME WEDNESDAY

Be sure and check out Works For Me Wednesday!
Today's tip is all about lists! I know that it's only September...but Christmas is around the corner. I post a list on my refrigerator where my family can begin to jot down suggestions for Christmas. I have to give my friend Sandi credit for this idea. When the Christmas flyers begin and the sales start...you already have a list to work with. The list is always handy when out of town family members begin to ask for a wish list.

I also added another list to my frig today. I call it "Mom I need this list." They jot down what they need and when they need it

This list was inspired by my son when he told us at 9:00 pm one night he needed poster board the next day. Now there is a reminder posted for them and hopefully avoid early trips to CVS.

that's my tip.

GIVEAWAY!!!!

Yeh! I am doing my first blog giveaway.


My daughters and I have been having a great time making Bottle Cap Jewelry.

This was all the craze at the beach this summer. It is super easy and fun.

I had a blast making birthday party favors for my niece. Her party is this weekend and I hope they love their new necklaces.

It all be began when I bought these adorable earrings at the beach.

It has a picture of a shoe and says" Which pair to where?

So here are the rules:

leave me a comment with a quote that would look cute on a pair of bottle cap earrings.

My daughters and I will pick our favorite. If we pick your quote...I will make you a pair with that quote and a picture.

It has to be between 2-4 words.

This will end Sunday at 6:00 pm.

Have fun

WORKS FOR ME WEDNESDAY

Head over to Rocks In My Dryer and check out the great tips today. Here is one from me. Everyday I have a "to do list". I love checking tasks off the list. I am going to try and do something different. I will still have a "to do list" but I am also going to add a new column...a "to be" list. Today I need to go to a speaking engagement, the post office and a football game. I also want "to be" more patient today, I want "to be" giving today and I want "to be" in prayer today. What is on your "to do" and your "to be" list?

WEEK OF GIVEAWAYS!!!!

Do you love free stuff? If so...head on over to Leigh's Blog. She is giving away some great stuff everyday this week. I know once you head over to her blog you will become a regular reader. Leigh is the President of Speaking Thru Me Ministry and an incredible woman of God. I have the privlege of receiving her encouraging emails and being a member of a speaking team that she has formed with her ministry partner Ginger. So what are you waiting for...go get the free stuff!!!

HE SAID NO...AND THAT WAS FINE WITH ME

I love speaking to women's groups and I just generally enjoy being around groups of women. A few weeks ago our church began to promote an upcoming women's mentoring ministry. I was ready to sign up. This is something I enjoy so why not. Then a little voice inside said "you need to pray about this." I listened. I hate to wait on anything...but I felt compelled to wait. Each week I would pass by the sign up table and I had to remind myself...wait. I began to realize that mentoring is a commitment and should be seen as that. I began to feel a real peace that this was not the time for me to do this...and you know what...I was okay with that.

I hope this means that I am maturing spiritually. I am realizing that sometimes you have to say no to even the "good" things. I know that he is protecting me from something and hopefully preparing me for something else.

Today in the service some great ideas came to mind based on the sermon. Details will come later...as I pray about this...and listen...and follow...even if the answer is NO.

ELECTION

I LOVE IT WHEN KIDS...ARE JUST KIDS.

I enjoyed watching the RNC but my favorite part was this:




This little girl was in her own little "cutey patooty" world. I loved it that she was just being "her."

What a lucky little boy.


This reminded me of the time that it was picture day and I told my son to make sure and comb his hair.

I caught him combing his hair...with his tennis shoe.

WORKS FOR ME WEDNESDAY

Head over to Works For Me Wednesday! Today is backwards day. Instead of posting a tip...today you post a question or you post a problem that needs a solution.

So here is my dilemma:

I am looking for a great work out program that will turn me into that size 6 that I dream of. (okay...I'd settle for a size 10)

Any suggestions?

LABOR DAY REWIND

As I sit here having coffee with my family, recapping the reunion, watching GUSTAV coverage, I realized that I am exhausted! It's a good tired!!!! What a weekend!

After watching Ally cheer saturday morning, we hit the road and headed south to West Virginia. After a great dinner at my sister's house we headed to the auction.

The auction can be hit or miss. Sometimes the items are unappealing and sometimes there are so many bargains...you can't resist. I am so glad that the latter was true on saturday. My mom purchased a beautiful quilt, cookware and a really neat item that seals plastic bags.(I bought one too) I bought a patio umbrella with built in solar lights for $20. I also bought a double hammock that is freestanding.
The items came from QVC and would cost 5 times more on air.

Sunday morning we worshipped at my cousin's church where Todd sang and played piano. It is a beautiful church with a small group of committed people. Then...it was off to the reunion!!!

We had a blast. 51 people came and it was great reconnecting with family. The best part of the reunion (in my opinion was our worship service). Before it began I prayed that the Gospel would be clearly presented somehow. God exceeded in a mighty way. The Gospel was CLEARLY presented not once, not twice, not three times...but 4 TIMES!!!!!

enjoy the pics

Fabulous Finds Friday

Things that make my life easier and better are what I consider fabulous finds.

This week it is all about family.

We are leaving tomorrow to spend the labor day weekend with family. 50 of them! That's right...we are having our first annual BUMPUS FAMILY REUNION. (don't make fun of the name...I have heard them all).


I can't wait for my kids to meet cousins they have never seen before. We are scattered around 5 states and are rarely in WV at the same time. This wasn't always the case. We all have wonderful memories of Christmas eve when we would all gather at my grandparent's house (ma and pa). The house was small and tight. The grandchildren would usually escape to the "parlor" and make crank phone calls.

I want my kids to learn about the legacy that was given to them. I am most proud of the people in my family who have dedicated their lives to ministry.

My great-grandfather was a circuit rider. He would ride from town to town on horseback to share the Gospel. Stories are often shared of how it would be so cold that he had to chisel his feet from the stirrups. I actually have a copy of the last sermon he preached.

My great uncle was a pastor and had a radio show called "The Sweet Hour of Prayer".

My dad was an evangelist and youth leader for many years.

My cousin is the pastor of Freedom Baptist Church. My other cousin and cousin's husband are both part-time pastors.

How do you have this legacy and not make it part of the reunion? You don't. That is why we are incorporating a worship service as part of the reunion.

Lots to do and lots to pack. I will share details when I return.

What is your legacy going to be?

When Are You Creative

I consider myself a creative person!! I love to create with my hands (not cooking).
I love to decorate and I love to mix and match clothing. I love it when God gives me a creative idea. Sometimes it seems like it comes out of nowhere with no warning. God has given me a very creative idea on how to publish my children's book. He has given me an idea for a skit to write. He has given me some creative ways to decorate my office with things that I already. I am not CREATIVE ON THE SPOT. If someone asks me for a creative idea I normally have to say "Let me think about it." Or in other words...I need for God to give me the idea. All good things come from Him...this includes creativity

THIS WEEK'S DEVOTION

A common theme has been going through my mind the last couple days "Am I my brother's keeper?" The Bible asks us this question as well. What is my duty to my fellow sister or brother? Not just my biological family...but my neighbors, my friends, people...I don't even know.

The other day I was with my son and we stopped at a gas station for gas. As we were driving away I looked over and 2 grown men were fighting. I don't mean with words...they were punching and hitting each other. My motherly instinct kicked in (and my possible stupidity). I pulled my car up beside them and said "Stop it you two...or I'm calling the police". They stopped and I drove away. I asked my son if that scared him and he said yes...not the fighting...you scared me when you yelled!

I felt safe because I was in my car and I knew I could getaway fast if needed. Why did I do that? Why did I feel the need to break up the fight? I guess it was because I cared about two people that I had never met. (especially the little man...he did not stand a chance) Now...I promise not to make a habit of breaking up fights between strangers...but I do want to make it a habit to care about people that I don't event know. I don't want to ignore people who are being treated unfairly. I don't want to ignore the unloved, the forgotten and especially the unchurched.

This brings me to my next conviction that I cannot get off my mind. Sunday I watched the Olympic Closing ceremony. It was amazing. The creativity, the organization, the splendor, etc. I thought China did an amazing job with the olympics and showcasing their city. An hour later it was over and to me it became a nice memory.

I went to bed that night and wondered how much it cost to put on the closing ceremonies. How many millions were spent! What if...at the next olympics...the closing ceremony was simplified. What if it was all about the athletes and not the hosting country. What if a majority of the money spent went to help build water systems for rural villages. What if the money went to feeding those who are starving. What if the host country used the money to save the children...those with AIDS, etc.

The olympics is special because for 2 weeks we come together as a world. How cool would it be if the host country became a catalyst for change and used the closing ceremony budget to keep this unity going. Are we our brother's keeper? I think yes!

SHOESAPALOOZA

You can tell by my blog header that I love buying shoes!!!!

I am not the only one in my family that shares that passion.

I was cleaning today and I am giving away 25 pairs of shoes!!!!

Gotta go...I am off to do my closet now.

BOTTLE CAP JEWELRY

Bottle cap jewelry was the new craze at the beach this year. We decided to try to make some on our own. Here are the first few pieces. Austin is going to a birthday party today for a girl in his band. We made her a band charm and a charm of her favorite boy band.

VOTE FOR ME

FABULOUS FINDS FRIDAY

Here is the second edition of "finds" that make my life easier or better.

I love fashion and accessories. I use to waste alot of time trying to find mates to my earrings. Not anymore!!!

What do you get when you have an ornate frame, leftover screen and a handy husband?

You get a great place to hang your earrings.

EDNA'S SECOND HELPIN'

Two years ago my grandmother went home to be with her Lord. It was a huge loss for our family. We mourned her passing for a long time and still miss her very much. My grandmother was truly one of a kind. She had such a big heart and always would "cheer" for the underdog. She gave generously of herself, her cooking, her money and her time. We believe we have found a way to keep her memory alive and her legacy will continue. My mom has established the "Edna's Second Helpin'" fund. Why the name? Her name was Edna and you could never leave her kitchen without a "second helpin'" of whatever she was cooking. She made you eat until you were ready to bust. She also believed that everyone deserved a "second chance." The fund will be used to help people who are deserving of "a little help." It is not a "handout" but a helping hand. I was so excited when I asked the team if we could help a soldier I know who served in Itaq. He is experiencing many health difficulties because of his deployment. I am so grateful that my grandmother showed each of us the importance of giving back.

SPEAKING ENGAGEMENT

Today I spoke in Parma at a Christian Women's Luncheon. The other speaker was from Pierre's Ice Cream. Every friday he samples ice cream. Fun job!!!

It was a great day and the highlight came at the end. I was sharing my testimony of how as a teen I was always looking to fill a void in my life that was "God size."

When I asked everyone in the audience to bow their heads and close their eyes for the invitation...one little girl did not. She and I locked eyes and for the next few minutes I felt like I was speaking to just her. It was so cool!!!She was very attentive and at the end gave me a huge smile.

I hope something she heard today will impact her life and maybe give her pause to think as she grows into a young lady.

MY DAUGHTER THOUGHT IT WAS FUNNY

Today I was driving with my daughter and I told her I had the perfect name for a Christian Boy Band...ready...

"The Jonah's Brothers"

She laughed...I smiled...it was a good day!

DEVOTIONS ON MONDAY

I am hoping to begin some sort of posting schedule for my blog. Mondays are hard and I thought it would be a good idea to begin the week with a devotional. Here goes the first devotion on what I am calling:

hmmm...I don't know what I will call it...yet.



Tomorrow is the first day of school. I asked my son what he was going to wear tomorrow...his response..."the first thing I see when I open my closet tomorrow." I remember planning for days what I would wear on the first day of school. I do have an embarassing confession in this area. I grew up watching "One Day at A Time" with Valerie Bertinelli. I loved the show and I loved her character. I thought she was so cool. I would watch the show to see what she would wear and then I would try to find a similar outfit. Maybe I will post a picture sometime of my failed attempt to her. Fast forward a few years later...okay...25 years. I am still guilty of trying to immulate others that I see. I try to parent like other moms that I meet, I try to have material items that other women have, I try to be like what society woud call the "Jones'" One question...who are the "Jones'"



I am reminded in His Word that " ... godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. 9 People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. 11 But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness." 1 Timothy 6:6-11


I need to be who He created me to be. As a matter of fact...I don't even think I would like the "Jones'" whoever they are.
Be you today!!!!

ANOTHER GREAT SUMMER WEEKEND

This weekend we headed off to Mohican Lodge with a family in our care group. We had a blast. We swam, watched the olympics, hiked (geo caching, ate some wonderful meals, canoed, ate some more, and most of all...enjoyed each others company.

Here are some of the highlights:

- having dinner at a small town cafe. We all expected Aunt Bee and Andy to walk through at any moment. We bought homemade muffins and homemade cinnamon rolls for breakfast. To quote Rachel Ray "YUMMO"
-Getting ice cream at a small town dairy bar
-Visiting a beautiful castle and maybe the future wedding sights of all of our daughters (each family has 2 beautiful girls)
-Enjoying a wonderful dessert with just us girls
-Exposing our friends to the fun of geocaching.

I am having trouble posting pics...off to do the laundry from the weekend.

One more thing...on the way home from church we stopped at Paul Mitchell's beauty school for $5 haircuts and $5 manicures. This was a benefit for the family of the officer that was killed in Twinsburg a month ago. His wife and beautiful baby girl were there. Pray for them.

FABULOUS FINDS FRIDAY

I am starting a new series on my blog called "Fabulous Finds Friday". I want to highlight the "finds" in my life that make it easier and better.

So to kick off the first one...I chose my dog Grady. Friends and family...do not be mad that I chose my dog first. It doesn't mean that I love any of you less...it just means that I don't have a picture of you that is easily accessible and...you are not laying at my feet as I type. ha ha

I use to laugh at those who had dogs that seemed so important to them. The ones that dressed up their dogs and took them eveywhere they went. I AM NOW ONE OF THEM.

My name is Joy and I treat my dog like a human. Hello Joy.

He is currently running around the house with a cute little t-shirt and yes...the kids and I did put a pair of build a bear superman pants on him for a short while yesterday.

I take him in the car whenever I can and at stop lights...I let him sit on my lap and put his paws on the steering wheel.

I love this dog. Every morning he runs into my room and wakes me up. He normally stays there until I decide to get up. He cries when I leave and he is always waiting for me when I return. His love is unconditional. We took him to a free obedience class last weekend and the trainer hurt my feelings. She said he was stubborn and can you believe she used the word "spoiled".

We love Grady and believe he has definately made our lives better. Well...gotta go...Grady hasn't been held for 30 minutes.

WE WONDER WHY OUR YOUNG GIRLS SUFFER FROM LOW SELF-ESTEEM

This article makes me a little angry...and very sad. What do you think? One of my passions is speaking to young girls about self esteem and true beauty. Read it for yourself...let me know what you think.

OPENING CEREMONY SINGER

GRAB SOME TISSUES...ESPECIALLY YOU SANDI

OLYMPICS SHOULD CHALLENGE US ALL

As I watched the opening ceremony of the olympics something occurred to me. All of the athletes marching around the stadium once had a dream...and now they have fulfilled that dream. They just didn't wake up last week and decide to try out for an olympic team. No! It took many hours of training and preparing and probably many obstacles to get to China. I have dreams and I have to keep reminding myself that I need to put the effort behind it. I am not going to just wake up one day and my book be pubished. I am not going to just wake up one day and be thinner and healthier. (now that's a dream) I'm not going to wake up one day and be debt free. I am not going to wake up one day and have the job that I always wanted.

How about you...what's your dream?

Today Austin went to his football (dream)practice. Number 48 came home tired but excited.

Off to Dick's Sporting Goods. I am not going to just wake up tomorrow and all of his dream (football) supplies be ready for him.

MENU PLANNING

I have always considered myself a teachable person. I love learning from other people and especially other women. I was talking to my best friend Sandie today on my way to the grocery store. I was telling her how much I hated grocery shopping. She asked me if I menu planned. I told her no. She went on to explain to me how this might make my shopping a little less stressful. Okay...I told her I would try. So here's to you Sandie:

Sunday: Ribs and Jo Jo's
Monday:chicken divan and noodles
Tuesday: Sloppy Joes and peirogies
Wednesday:Chicken Pockets and corn casserole
Thursday:Calzones and salad
Friday/Saturday: camping
Sunday: whatever we can find

ANOTHER DREAM BEGINNING

What do you do when your son tells you he now wants to play football and that it begins in 4 days and he needs a physical before he can start? I tell you what I do...I scurry around trying to get an appointment, all the paperwork completed (this includes a waiver of liability...yikes)and any supplies that he may need. Why do I do this? I have always told my kids to dream big and to try new things. Never to limit themselves and never be afraid. I don't want these words thrown back at me...so we are off to our sports physical.

I wonder if Peyton Manning gave his mom more notice? hmmm

IT PAYS TO YARD SALE...LITERALLY

I love garage sales. I love yard sales and estate sales. My eye is always looking for that homemade sign that will lead me to that ultimate find.

It has been a great year for me.

I found Ashley a great couch for $40, matching area rug for $5 and other great finds.

Last week I happened to drive by a sale and decided to stop. It was a clean, well organized sale and all of the proceeds were going to charity. Her stuff was great. I wear a size 7 1/2 shoe and tried to squeeze my feet into a size 5. She had beautiful stylish shoes, never worn...at a great price. This is where I bought Ashley's couch.

As I was checking out, she asked if I wanted to buy a raffle ticket. Sure...I always support breast cancer.

Today...my door bell rang...I WON $100 in Gas cards. I was so excited!!!

See...the next time people tell me I am crazy for always searching for that great deal...I say...WHO BOUGHT YOUR GAS TODAY?

ARE YOU HUNGRY?

If anyone is hungry head to Ashley's. The kids and I drove to erie and spent sunday evening in a fun hotel. We spent all day cooking and freezing food for Ashley. For those of you who know me well...know how much I hate to cook. You will find chinese containers and pizza boxes in my recycling bin each week. I hate to cook...but love AShley and want to do whatever I can to make her stay at medical school easier.

Here is her menu:

Baked Oatmeal
watermelon
chocolate cookies
banana bread
Spaghetti
Sloppy Joes
Chicken Burritos
Pot Roast with vegetables
Chicken Divan
Cranberry Chicken
Buttered Noodles
calzones

I am tired...and I am not cooking for awhile!

Hello Papa John's

FREE SUMMER ACTIVITIES

Boy am I tired. We have had a very busy and fun summer and also at times...free!

Watching the Browns practice was FREE!
Going last night to watch Bucky Covington was FREE!
Fireworks at Twinsday tonight...FREE!
Tomorrow we are going to a Jeremy Camp concert that is ...yes...FREE!

Of course the best event takes place at our house between 6 pm and 8 pm. )ALSO A FREE EVENT)

Austin's band will be auditioning lead female singers.

Pray for us.

5 to 6 little girls will be coming to audition and my prayer is that no one gets their heart broken.

I told Austin they need to be sensitive and fair or I was going to hang up all of his embarassing baby pictures for everyone to see tonight. Especially those baby bath pictures.

CLEVELAND ROCKS

Yesterday I took Alex and a friend to watch the Brown's Training Camp. It was hot...it was crowded and I know nothing about football. To me a "tight end" is something I once had. The boys had a blast. We were able to put a blanket right down on the side of the field. To let you know how close we were...the pictures we took were with a regular lense.

CONFERENCE

I mentioned earlier some exciting news about an upcoming conference. I believe STMM founder Leigh says it much better. With her permission...I am including an excerpt from her blog.

Leigh writes:

Speaking Thru Me Ministries has just been granted 501(c) tax exempt status. That means that we are able to take donations and give the donor a tax benefit. Yeah!! But having said that we have little to nothing in the pot to speak of. If you remember correctly our speakers take no kind of speaking fee. I would say we have even less than 5 loaves and 2 fish. Nevertheless God has given me this story today to encourage me that He will provide in abundance.

September 2009 I have rented the Marion Civic Center for a conference for men and women. I have already booked Curtis Jones, Beth Moore's son in law, to speak. I am working on the worship leader and a few more speakers. Priscilla Shirer has already gracefully declined. So i continue to reach my hand in the basket to pull out more and more loaves and fishes. Every time I begin to panic - will anyone show up - how will i ever pay for all this - what if my speakers cancel at the last minute - how is this different than anything else - I reach my hand once again in the basket and
He provides...scripture, cards from friends, emails from family, holy nudges!!




Head over to Leigh's blog to get more details and the story of how God led her to this decision.

Pray for us!!!

BLOG UPDATE

I am trying to update the look of my blog. This is a work in progress so it will be changing a lot.

I wanted to share a quote that I saw at the beach.

"MEN ARE FROM MARS...WOMEN ARE FROM VISA"

OFF TO MEDICAL SCHOOL

Ashley has officially started her journey to becoming a doctor. Her Camry headed down I-271 yesterday afternoon. Ashley, we are so proud of you and so excited to see you going after not only your dream but the plan that God has for you. I know it won't be easy...but you won't be alone. Many people are praying for you and you will not fail.

I was so touched by two Godly women who pulled Ashley aside and prayed with her at church yesterday. Sandy...thank you for telling Ashley that she can call you at any hour of the day for prayer...you're the best.

Ashley my prayer is that your class is the class the cures cancer, that helps children live the life that children should live. My prayer is that your class wipes out the diseases that are taking the lives of people too soon.

On a selfish note...I hope your class finds that miracle pill that keeps us all looking young and thin forever. I will be your guinea pig.

We love ya!

VACATION SLIDE SHOW

GOOD TO BE HOME

We safely arrived home today and it was so exciting to see Grady. I hate to admit that I have become one of those crazy "dog" people. I missed him and was so excited to see him. He looked bigger, fluffier and better behaved.

Vacation was awesome. We did many things that we haven't done in the past. One of the favorites was renting a speed boat and going tubing. The kids had a ball. I even tried it. We splurged and rented a boat for 2 hours. We had 40 minutes let on the rental and the tube broke. We were disappointed since the kids were having so much fun. When we returned to the rental shack we asked if they could compensate us some way because of the tube. They went above and beyond...they actually allowed us to come back the next day for 2 more hours...FREE!!!!That is what I call great customer service.

We ended our trip with a family scavenger hunt. We had 45 minutes to take 12 different pictures. The other team won..that's okay...it was worth it to see my mom go up to strangers and ask if we could take their picture.

Gotta go...suitcases won't unpack themselves.

EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT

I would like to interrupt blogging about our vacation to bring an exciting announcement.

Leigh Gray the founder of Speaking Thru Me emailed us all today to say that we have been officially approved as a non-profit and have tax exempt status. Yeh!!!! This is a huge deal for us now as we begin to plan for announcement number 2:

STMM will be posting a conference (Fall of 2009). Plans are being finalized to have Curtis Jones (Beth Moore's son-in-law) as our conference speaker. Leigh and Ginger are working diligently to secure a top worship leader.

Details will be shared as they are finalized.

Check out the website and please pray for us.

BEACH TRIP CONTINUED

Yesterday we went to barefoot landing and had a fun lunch at Johnny Rockets. JR takes you back to the 50's. at any moment the "fonz" could be walking in with his leather jacket and "hey....

Last night was our night to cook so wally and I made what we call "beach chicken". I will share the recipe later. It is delicious and only has 4 ingredients. Debby made a special salad that Todd suggested and her signature peanut butter pie.

Last night was karaoke night at the beach. It was fun. There are some really good singers here and a few that well let's say...bless their hearts.

We also had dun driving around on the golf cart and visiting the many people who sell homemade crafts at their site. I am definately going to investigate the new jewelry craze here...I'll share later.

Sadly the trip is winding down...more to cram in 3 days.

WORKS FOR ME WEDNESDAY

I love "Works for Me Wednesday!" There are some great tips posted every wednesday. This is a first...I am going to post a tip.


How do you manage the many cords that come with Ipods, cell phones, Gamecube, WII, Xbox etc.? With a large family and everyone having at least 2 of these...I have found a system.

I hand a shoe organizer on the back of a door. Shoe organizers come with many departments and can easily make the cords accessible. That's my tip.

BEACH UPDATE!!!

We are doing great at the beach!!!!

Internet is unpredictable and I can't upload any pictures. The concert was great!!!
Wait until you see the picture of Tim McGraw. I am not sure how he moved in such tight jeans. The performers were great!!

Monday we hit the outlet mall. I mean true outlet stores. I bought 2 pairs of pants, shirt, dress, shorts for $40.

We spent the afternoon with my cousin and her family. There are 19 members of our family here at the beach. We are going to try and take a family picture on thursday.

Yesterday the entire family hit the beach jumping waves and swimming with the fish. Because of recent storms the waves were wild and fun.

Last night we dined among rock stars at Hard Rock Cafe. We walked around Broadway at the Beach. A highlight was watching the performers prepare fudge at the fudgery.

We are having a ball just spending time together.

WE SAW GARTH BROOKS TODAY...IN CHURCH

Every year on vacation we attend Low Country Community Church. We love the laid back atmosphere, the sweet tea you drink during worship and the greeters. We walked in today and we were met by two men with long beards...numerous piercings, tattoos all the way up their arms and the nicest men you ever met. They worshipped God with all their heart and soul. Worship was GREAT!!! Get this...the worship leader's side job is as a Garth Brooks impersonator. He did not lead us "friends in low places" as Garth but as himself...but we are going to a benfit tonight where he will be in full Garth regala. Rumor has it that we will also meet Elton John, Tim Mcgraw, Jerry Lee Lewis, and of course...Elvis. We are so excited.

We are having a blast here at the beach. Temperature was 98 degrees today. I will try to post a picture tomorrow of us with our famous friends.

Gotta go for now...and as Garth would say.."Thank God for unanswered prayers."

TELL ME WHY GOD!

God...why do we have to have hot flashes when it is already 95 degrees outside?

CAMP ROCK...ROCKS

Austin comes home everyday excited about camp. Today they met Jim Peterick who wrote "Eye of the Tiger." The kids were impressed that he knew Sylvester Stallone. Austin asked if I had ever heard of any of the bands that he played for since it would have been during my teenage years. I told Austin unless he played back-up for David Cassidy or Donny Osmond I probably wouldn't know him. We are gearing up for the big show on Friday. We spent all day making shirts for all of the band members families. My says "mom of the guitarist" on the back. We helped Austin practice his autograph just for fun.

I was getting ready for church tonight and I was thinking about Austin's excitement. How could we duplicate that for church? I keep a binder of ideas that I would use if I am ever blessed to be a children's director again. Several years ago I had written down "Camp Rock" for a church. I think you could do this in a very appropriate way and have a fun week for kids who love music. You have to be creative. Look at how the world is grabbing our kid's attention. We have to be creative in how we do ministry. I have a whole notebook full of fun and creative ideas...just waiting for the opportunity.

SUMMER REWIND

We have had a great summer so far:

- 4th of July in Chicago visited family that we haven't seen in awhile. We were able to attend a graduation party for my nephew and re-connect with family
- Short trip to charleston and a chance to visit with mom and sister last weekend. I have to say that we hit some GREAT!!! garage sales and found some real bargains.
- Austin is having a great time at "CAMP ROCK". Rumor has it that Nickelodeon will be filming the concert on Friday. We had to sign a release. On another band note...the name of his band had to change for the week. They added a bass player so "LITTLE ROCK THREE" doesn't work. His mentor temporarily gave them the name "SHOW ME THE MONEY".
- ALex is at "CAMP CHARLESTON" and is being spoiled beyond repair
- Allison continues to mentor little girls each week as she teaches them cheers and stunts at a cheerleading camp
- Ashley is busy packing up her room for her big move to Erie on friday

BEST OF ALL...we are off to the beach soon. YEH!!! We have planned our menu and even planned a mid-week scavenger hunt.


I look at the above list of fun activities and I feel guilty and sad. WHY?

Last night the girls and I attended the vigil for the police officer that was killed in Twinsburg recently.

500 people came out with candles to mourn the loss of this man. He was a new father and seemed to have his whole life ahead of him.

I am reminded of what someone shared with me once. The only breath you are guaranteed is the one you just took.

Life is fleeting...eternity is forever...we need to live like it...note to self.

WHEN GOD WRITES YOUR LOVE STORY

I just returned from a wedding that was incredible. It wasn't because of the food (it was delicious) it wasn't because of the beautiful bride (even though she could have been on the cover of a bridal magazine) it was because of the love story that led up to this day.

I have known the couple since they were in 7th grade. They were only friends. I watched both of them grow in the Lord and begin to serve Him wholeheartedly. I watched them serve at outreach events and missions trips. I watched them comfort their friends in times of need and I have watched them respect their parents and love their families.

Today was special. Today I watched them come together as husband and wife. Through the years I have watched them let "God write their love story". He can write it like no other.

MY NEW BOOK

So...if I ever write a book about my journey as a mom...I already have a title:

Here it is...

"I'D ESCAPE MY WORRIES BUT GAS PRICES ARE TOO HIGH"

I like the following title that I saw the other day in Today's christian woman

"Due to the high cost of energy the light at the end of the tunnel has been dimmed"

What do Ya think?

So tonight at Bible study I was talking to some of the women about the social network programs online. We were talking about how confusing we found FACEBOOK and whether or not we were too old. We decided to create a new social network for those of us over 40...We think we should call it

FACEliftBOOK

KINDERGARTEN MEMORIES

Do you have a certain meal that reminds you of a special time in your life. I do. My grandmother's bake steak and gravy, my mom's chili, my grandmother's graham cracker pie.

We returned from Chicago last night and I was too tired to cook so everyone was on their own for dinner. I went to fix myself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich when something in the pantry caught my eye...fritos. It took me back to kindergarten. Everyday my best friend Kim Runyon would bring a PB&J and fritos. She would open her sandwich and pour the fritos on the sandwich. We thought it was so cool that kim's sandwich made a crunching noise when she bit into it. We all began putting "crunchies" on our sandwiches. The best was fritos. So last night...I regressed back to kindergarten and put the "crunchies" on my sandwich. It was just as good as it was 37 years ago.

Giveaway

Hey,

Check out my friend Leigh's Blog. She is having a really fun giveaway.

www.leighhargisgray.blogspot.com

DAD'S POETRY

I love to write and I think I inherited this from my dad. I have been cleaning our basement and I came across this poem that he had written when his mother died. The same time she died...Ally was born.

IN MEMORY OF EUNICE RUTH BUMPUS

What are they seeing when in their sleep they smile,
the dying Christian and the newborn child?
The one just arrived, the other soon to leave.
With the one we're happy, the other we grieve.

But wait, they're both smiling, what can it mean.
The pleasant, peaceful looked they have as they dream.
Is it God they see and he's saying don't despair.
"I love you both and you're both in my care."

We've watched our babies smile this way.
And now mom, grandma smiled today.
So now we know why there is this smile,
on the face of the Christian and the newborn child.

And we're happy for both the Christian and the child.
For God loves them both and on both HE has smiled.

WEEKEND REWIND

- Went to old navy and bough flip-flops for $1
- Watched alex and austin play over 8 hours of baseball this weekend. Austin hit a grand slam and completed something called a "batting cycle"
- Had a whole afternoon to myself while everyone else went to an Indians game
- Went to a wonderful Bible study today on the history of the church
- Enjoyed another weekend visiting with Todd
- Had someone surprise me today with personalized cards made just for me
- Made Ashley and Allison laugh so hard that Allison fell to the floor


A GREAT WEEKEND!!!

THE DISNEY EXPERIENCE

I was watching the news the other day and there was a story about how the airline industry is sending their employees to a disney training program to help improve customer service. Disney is known for their attention to detail and goes the extra mile to make it a great experience for families. The statement was made that "one negative employee can ruin the disney experience for a family." That is why they are so intentional on training their employees. I thought about a similar experience at a church. A church may have all the bells and whistles but if they don't love on their people are they creating a bad experience. If they are judgmental are they creating a bad experience. I remember one time feeling judged by a church and it took me awhile before I wanted to go back. I didn't feel loved. I have visisted large churches where not one person greeted me or said hello. Could a bad experience cause someone not to want to come to the place where they will hear the good news of Jesus?

UNEXPECTED BLESSINGS

SometimesI think we forget to look for the blessings in our lives. Especially those that we never expect.

When I joined Speaking Thru Me Ministry I really needed a current professional headshot. I wasn't sure how I was going to afford this and then I remembered a wonderful photographer that I met at a mother/daughter event this year. She was so kind and patient and I loved her work. I saw her at another event and asked if she would do my headshot. She not only agreed...she volunteered her time and services to me and this ministry. I was so blessed. I hate having my picture taken but she made it so much fun. I felt like a super model for a day. I would highly recommend Mary Rabai, photographer. If you are interested...email me and I can put you in touch with her. She is wonderful and will make you feel so special and beautiful. Thanks Mary.

We have been de-cluttering our house so I have been putting things on craigs list. Today I posted a "free swingset". I was overwelmed with emails and wasn't sure how to go about responding to all of them. A wonderful Christian family came and picked it up. I was so blessed my them that I started looking for other stuff that I could give to them. They went home with a van load.

HIGH HEELS FOR BABIES

I love shoes...and I love high heels...but I think this may be a little young.

Check out this adorable website...

www.heelarious.com

It will make you smile

SPEAKING THRU ME MINISTRY

A few weeks ago I mentioned that I am now part of a new speaking team called Speaking Thru Me. I am on a team with 8 other wonderful women scattered across the United States. We had our first conference call this week and all 9 of us were on the phone together for over an hour. It was like a virtual slumber party. They are incredible women with such faith and desire to serve God. We are led by 2 women who are dedicated to spreading the good news of Jesus Christ. This ministry is exciting for several reasons but here is the biggest....there is not a fee to book a speaker from this ministry. Speaking Thru Me Ministry provides speakers FOR FREE. Many churches can't afford the large fees so they don't have events that could help grow God's Kingdom. If you are part of a church or you are a ministry leader, please check out www.speakingthrume.com

WORD ON THE GO

I am in my car alot. Driving kids to activities, school and etc. I have tried to use this time to listen to Christian radio and mainly times of teaching. We have satellite radio so there is always a wonderful speaker. Today I was listening to Alistair Begg. He was talking about teens and the pressures they go through in particular those who are "cutting" themselves. He said something that was so profound. He said what would it be like if they let His scars replace the ones they made. What if they were able to understand the cuts and scars that Jesus took for them on the cross and replaced His cuts with their's. I am start to understand more and more why teens do this after spending some time with recovering "cutters."

SUMMER PARENTING

I have already realized that this summer is going to be different. As our children become older it seems their social life changes. They are old enough to be able to ride their bikes more places, they are invited to many social events and they are old enough to become a little more independant. This scares me. How do I give them more freedom without constantly worrying about what they are doing. I was really fretting over this today and an idea came to me. Wally and I have decided to sit down with each child and prepare a summer contract. It will state what they are allowed to do and what activites are off limits. In other words...don't even ask to go there. It will also state consequences. I hope this works. I pray that this eliminates the famous saying "I didn't know I couldn't do that...or you never said I couldn't go there." Pray for us...really I mean pray for us...parenting isn't easy.

SCHOOL'S OUT

Summer has officially began in our household. The boys are out of school, Ally gets out in 4 days and I probably won't be called to sub.

I am looking forward to some down time and a more laid back routine. No more rising at 6:00 am to pack lunches and fix breakfast.

I also want to use my summer wisely. Lots of plans to organize my house, go to the pool and work on my speaking schedule.

I am also praying about a part-time job opporunity.

Have a great summer!!!

REFLECTION

As I was driving to work today I heard the sad news about the tragic death of Steven Curtis Chapman's daughter. My heart goes out to this family and especially to the teenage son who was driving. Sometimes life doesn't make sense to me. I know that this beautiful young girl is with Jesus...but I have a heavy burden for this young man. I am so glad that I was teaching at CVCA today and my first period class prayed for this family. It makes one think of the important things in life. Yes...last night a life was changed on American Idol...but lives were changed in the Chapman home hours earlier. Yesterday was the 2 year anniversary of the death of my grandmother. Our lives have never been the same. Lives have been changed in positive ways and relationships have been changed in negative ways as well.

I don't have the answers. I really have no words to say that could comfort anyone going through a difficult time. I cling to the fact that "I don't know what the future holds...but I do know who holds the future."

God's Leading

I read a wonderful article by Jill Briscoe on following God's will. Jill says "Once I sense the direction that God is leading, I need to have a personal Gethsemane, a personal Calvary and a personal Pentecost.

Personal Gethsemane - She explains that this is when you are aligning yourself with the will of God when you don't want to do what He is calling you to do. Our prayer changes to be "like His and that His will be done and not my own."

Personal Calvary - She explains that this is where the "I" gets crucified and we are "dying" to what we really want to do.

Personal Pentecost - This is where Jill says we "receive the power to do what we know deep down we need to do"


GREAT STUFF

THERE'S A DOCTOR IN THE HOUSE

Ashley learned today that she has been accepted into medical school. She will be part of the graduating class of 2012. We are so proud of her and can't wait to see how the Lord will use her in the career.

PERFECT CAREER

Today I was substitute teaching at my favorite school and I had a 2 hour break. I was thinking how blessed I was today to have this time off to relax and do somethings for myself. I asked myself..."What would be my perfect job."

Here it is:

First choice would be a full time career speaking and writing. I would love to be able to put all of my energy and creativity into one area.

Second choice would be teaching a Bible class at a Christian School

Third choice would be working at a church and being part of a "Creative team". I created this job description myself. My only job would be to collaborate with other creative people and plan creative worship services, outreach events, etc.

What's your perfect job?

OPENING DAY!!!

Today is opening day for Twinbsurg Baseball.

The Sand Gnats play at 1:00 and the Mets play at 2:00.

off to the game....

QUOTE OF THE DAY

This is something that makes one nervous when your dog has a digestive problem.

"Mom...Grady (our puppy) smells like syrup again"

It's going to be a long night...

A NEW SEASON FOR ASHLEY

Ashley hit a milestone this weekend as she graduated from college. It's hard to believe that this phase of her education is over! I know that she brought home more then a diploma from Bethel College. She brings home many memories, new friends, wonderful Biblical teaching and a wonderful boyfriend. I am reminded of what Ron Hutchcraft says about evangelism. We go to college to prepare ourselves for a vocation to support our ministry. In other words...we are all evangelists disguised as teachers, lawyers, business men and women and for Ashley...a doctor. We are proud of her and had a wonderful time with friends and family this weekend.

MOM/Manager

I am thrilled to announce that my son's sixth grade rock band has their next gig. They will be doing 3 sets for their school's relay for life. I acted as their temporary manager and booked the "gig" for them. They are so excited!!! So am I. We were finally able to watch a video of them at the school dance. They did great. They are preparing to submit their video to "America's Got Talent" t.v. show.

I am so thrilled that they have big dreams. I hope they never lose their enthusiasm!!!I'll keep you posted on the next Little Rock Three tour date. Let's see if I am their temporary manager...10% sounds fair to me.

LETTER TO ME

Brad Paisley has a song I believe is called "Letter to Me." It's about a letter that he would write now to himself at seventeen if it were possible. In other words...what do I wish I knew at seventeen that I know now. I was thinking back to when I was seventeen and wondering what I wish I could tell that teenage girl. Here are some thoughts...some humorous...some not.

1) Your jeans are too tight and your hair is too high.
2) Never spend more time picking out your outfit then you do picking your friends
3) Embrace every moment with your grandmother...she won't live forever like you believe
4) relationships with boys and girls are not disposable
5) Your mom knows more then you think she does
6) going to an all girl's college won't be easy...and your freshman year homecoming date is going to do something really embarassing at the dance.
7) don't live your life one way on sunday and another way during the week
8) you will have a wonderful husband and 4 great children someday
9) being a Christ follower is better than following any group or anyone else
10) work a little harder in English


What would you like to write to yourself at seventeen?

EXCITING NEWS

I have started writing this entry several times. Each time I think I know what to say...I stop. I can't seem to find the words to express how excited I am about an opportunity that God has brought my way. I am going to be part of a speaking team with some wonderful, incredible, Godly women. Head over to www.speakingthrume.com and check it out for yourself. I am overwhelmed with God's blessing and overjoyed by the sisterhood of these wonderful women. I will share more as everything comes together. If your group or if you know anyone who is looking for a speaker, please pass this website on to them.

GREAT WEEK OF GREAT TEACHING

My prayer this week has been that God give me this strong desire for emersing myself in His word. God is so creative!!! I have been exposed to 4 days of great teaching.

One of the advantages of subbing in 2 Christian schools is the opportunity to be part of staff devotions and chapels.

Monday/Tuesday - Staff devotions consisted of two great sessions on prayer. This question was asked of us "If we truly understand spiritual warfare how would it effect the way we pray?" I never truly asked myself that. The example of Daniel was used. Daniel prayed to God and it took 3 weeks for the answer. Why? Could it have been the battle that was taking place...hmm.

Wednesday - I heard a wonderful chapel presentation on heaven. It was truly an
"Oh yeah" moment. He gave a wonderful visual of how our life now compares to our eternal life in heaven. We are not to hold on to this life so tight...it is so temporary. Our life now compared to our eternal life is like pouring a cup of coffee into the ocean. Our life on earth is the coffee and the ocean is eternity. It made me realize eternity is so hard to grasp. Eternity in heaven will be great but there is also eternity in hell. We should be so zealous to reach the lost.

Wednesday night - I attended a women's Bible study. I almost didn't go. I thought about staying home and cleaning. What...that is crazy...the dirt can wait. We studied Deborah. I love learning about women in the Bible...especially Old Testament Women. She was a strong leader.

Thursay - I attended a chapel service based on Isaiah 55. Another great teaching. The speaker called it "The Great Invitatin."

I can hardly wait to see what I learn tomorrow.

LEARNING FROM KINDERGARTNERS

There is a book titled "Everything I needed to know I learned in kindergarten." I've never read the book so I am not sure what it is about. I don't know why this book crossed my mind the other day but as I was thinking about it I took it one step further. Everything I learned about following Christ I learned from a kindergarten class.

See what I mean:

Evangelism/Servant- I love it when I am teaching kindergartners and I ask for volunteers. All 22 hands will go up even before they know what the task is. It reminds me of what Isaiah said to God when God needed someone to "send" . Isaiah said "send me" They are quick to volunteer and serve. They find joy in the simplest of tasks.

God's Love - The other day a child began to cry in class. When I asked him why he told me that he was missing his mom. I told him that I was a mom and would he feel better if I gave him a "mom hug." This turned into 21 other children missing their moms and all in need of a hug. One child began to cry because he missed his cousin. I explained to them that it had to stop and we we're not going to focus on all of the people (dogs, grandmoms, aunts, neighbors...) that they were suddenly missing. We all feel lonely at times. Sometimes all we need is someone to come alongside us and reach out to us. God calls us to reach out to those who are in need and hurting.


Forgiveness: On a daily basis a kindergarten teacher will hear "he won't share...he won't play with me...etc. They will have their spats...get over it and return to playing with that child. They are quick to forgive and forget. Kindergarteners don't hold grudges.


Teaching/Wisdom: The other day I was doing a puzzle with a few kindergarteners. I thought I knew for sure where a piece went but I was quickly corrected by a 5 year old. I said "how about that...you are smarter then the teacher." "Yep" he replied...even though you've been on this earth a lot longer...I am smarter." Age doesn't always make us smarter. No matter what age we are, we can learn from those who are younger.

POST 150 - Girl's Conference

Yes...this is post #150 on my blog.

I want to share about the girl's conference that I spoke at last weekend. It was amazing. My mom and I were driving to the conference (at 7:00 am in the morning) and we were concerned about the weather report. They were reporting high water in the direction of the conference. I joked to my mom that we would be there "come Hell of high water." Well the high water never came but it seemed like Satan was trying to stop us. On the way I realized that I left my computer and media. So I had to have Wally come and meet my and bring it to me. My mom lost her debit card when we stopped to get gas. (we found it). We were almost to the event and had to be detoured "around the mountain". This delayed our arrival but we finally made it.

It was a great morning. The attendance was low but the girl's were amazing and so honest. We talked alot about the pressures that they face today and intertwined the story of Esther and Queen Vashti. I often feel that Queen Vashti is overlooked when people speak on Esther. Queen Vashti modeled a woman of high morals when she said no to the King. She represents the sacriice that we have to make sometimes when we say "no" to the world.

We had a panel discussion with the girls. Pray for them. Many of them are going through trials and pressures that many of us have faced before. I had a chance to speak to the moms and women of the church. This was so much fun! They were also very honest and blessed me in many ways. I am so thankful that this church has agreed to stand in the gap for the girls. They truly represent what God has called women to be in His Word. I loved the weekend. It was great to "come home to West Virginia." It was the first time that I had ever spoke in my home state. We are already talking about next year.